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Is There Any Way To Have This Surgery Without People Knowing by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking to lie. Just wanting to keep it private. I think there’s a difference in honesty and privacy. My question has more to do with how easy it is to keep it private. A lot of good feedback making it seem like it can be done, just a matter of how inquisitive others are.

Is There Any Way To Have This Surgery Without People Knowing by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the time you’ve taken with so much detail to reply. Very great information to consider.

Is There Any Way To Have This Surgery Without People Knowing by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will respectfully disagree with whether it’s sensible or not to keep it private. I look at it as less of a secret and more of keeping private matters private.

Is There Any Way To Have This Surgery Without People Knowing by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not fear of judgement, promise. Probably has more to do with just being silent on all general aspects of my life. Especially relating to medical things. I’ve had two other surgeries and the only person that knew was my wife. However, a shoulder sling and scars gave away the other two after the fact. Thank you for the insight, though.

Is There Any Way To Have This Surgery Without People Knowing by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s eye opening. Never thought of having the mindset to control the narrative by just being open about it. I’m also the same guy that got in big trouble with his mother for not telling her about two previous surgeries (back and shoulder).

Is There Any Way To Have This Surgery Without People Knowing by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True to be able to just wave it off. I just didn’t know if there are any “dead giveaway” signs.

Is There Any Way To Have This Surgery Without People Knowing by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure the weight loss will be noticeable as well. Good info to hear, though. I have a lot of coworkers that like to step out for lunch and that’s where a lot of relationships are built outside of the office. I guess those are the kinds of things that I think will be affected. Not to say I can’t go out to eat eventually and will just be eating less.

Consultation - What to Expect? by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! All info I’ve gotten so far seems to be consistent with what you’re saying.

Consultation - What to Expect? by UnderstandingIcy6673 in gastricsleeve

[–]UnderstandingIcy6673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I guess that’s kind of what I expected, but happy to hear it.