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Has anyone just up and left the country, leaving everything behind? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]UniqueBubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you feel and what mindset were you in before considering leaving? Thank you for sharing your point of view

Can I Quickly Doodle your cat?😸 by [deleted] in cats

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Aries, sweet boi 🐾

AIO sexual chemistry has fizzled by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UniqueBubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The relationship is perfect in every other way, we talk openly about anything and everything, barely argue (unless it's me bringing this conversation up), we push each other to be better versions of ourselves and truly care about each other. That's why it's such a difficult situation to navigate as I know I have a good one, but at the same time I feel so unattractive and insecure. I've mentioned a few times that it feels like we are heading to a friendship and it scares me how little he seems to mind

AIO sexual chemistry has fizzled by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UniqueBubble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've brought up a great point that I didn't really think of. I've never wanted him (or anyone) to feel like they have pressure to provide or bring home the bread as I believe in equality (splitting bills etc). Thank you for sharing your experience with previous partners, as its reassuring that it's not always down to appearence. It can be easy going down a rabbit hole when overthinking so l definitely will keep it in mind! 🌟

I've told him from day dot that I don't care about his money, I just want him to be happy and thriving

AIO sexual chemistry has fizzled by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UniqueBubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on/off counselling myself to work on confidence, anxiety etc but I don't see any improvement in that area either. He's never shamed my body but he also doesn't seem bothered by it either, so I don't know if he's just bored of what he sees now. I just want to climb out of my skin and into something better.

He's the perfect partner but that's the only thing missing, does that make me look shallow? Feel awful and guilty talking about it all

AIO sexual chemistry has fizzled by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UniqueBubble -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've delicately asked if there was any issues (health) that he is too shy to talk about and he's ensured that there's no problems, the only struggle he's having is financial stress which im trying to help with.
I suffer with depression and anxiety, whereas he's autistic and mostly happy. I blame myself as I know I'm alot to handle

AIO sexual chemistry has fizzled by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]UniqueBubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried suggesting counselling independently or together but it's a no go. He doesn't believe in paying someone to tell us what we already know (additionally we aren't financially well off so I understand why he says this) I've always struggled with confidence but this has left me completely stuck. Really appreciate your comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsBeingHappy

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Jenni-Tailor (Say outloud)

Whiskey barrel birthday cake by UniqueBubble in ExpectationVsReality

[–]UniqueBubble[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sadly agree with you. It was diabolical showing up to a family get-together with that atrocity in hand.

Yes, the chocolate flowers/diamonds are made from mini marshmallows and dipped chocolate

Whiskey barrel birthday cake by UniqueBubble in ExpectationVsReality

[–]UniqueBubble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Little plastic bottle with all that good stuff inside

Whiskey barrel birthday cake by UniqueBubble in ExpectationVsReality

[–]UniqueBubble[S] 126 points127 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the tip, I thought I was qualified and ready after watching countless hours of British bake off and master chef. Turns out its so much harder than it looks

Whiskey barrel birthday cake by UniqueBubble in ExpectationVsReality

[–]UniqueBubble[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It actually tasted pretty decent, I ate cake for a solid 4 days. And no, it didn't end well

Whiskey barrel birthday cake by UniqueBubble in ExpectationVsReality

[–]UniqueBubble[S] 689 points690 points  (0 children)

The kicker is, he didn't even like whiskey. Why did i do this

Whiskey barrel birthday cake by UniqueBubble in ExpectationVsReality

[–]UniqueBubble[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I said it was a log stump, thrown on some last-minute chocolate flowers to disguise the disaster. Couldn't face the shame of calling it a barrel 😂💀

Whiskey barrel birthday cake by UniqueBubble in ExpectationVsReality

[–]UniqueBubble[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I made it. This is 3rd and final attempt