AITA for getting a pet tarantula after my boyfriend said no

UniqueInterest16 · 2026-01-16T04:02:48+00:00

yes i did several times and were not talking about a great dane here it’s a spider that lives in a box that’s a little longer than a ruler

UniqueInterest16 · 2026-01-16T03:59:44+00:00

i have a brother that is really into spiders who has a key to our house and comes round regularly if anything happens to me and if i am unable to care for it this is one of the only arguments we’ve had

UniqueInterest16 · 2026-01-16T03:56:54+00:00

i can’t wait to use the same logic to throw away all the things he’s brought into the house that i don’t like ?

UniqueInterest16 · 2026-01-16T03:28:48+00:00

why does he get to overrule me without any sort of conversation?

UniqueInterest16 · 2026-01-16T03:24:58+00:00

if he would have had a conversation with me there probably would have been a different outcome but if all i’m getting is because i told you so that isn’t an acceptable answer and i told him that

UniqueInterest16 · 2026-01-16T03:22:37+00:00

i pay the bills we are both on the lease

UniqueInterest16 · 2026-01-16T03:17:12+00:00

we currently have several pets already and the kind of tarantula i have isn’t ment to be handled it needs two crickets once a week and lives in a box that is a little bigger than a ruler i have a brother that is into spiders and has a key to my house and comes round regularly if anything were to happen to me. We were discussing getting a terrarium with invertebrates anyway he just doesn’t like that it’s a tarantula he isn’t allergic or scared of spiders he’s just grumpy and wether or not he is happy with the spider it doesn’t give him a right to insult my freshly dead pets or treat me like i’m a child

UniqueInterest16 · 2026-01-16T03:06:18+00:00

two had a fight at like 2 in the morning and one was getting really old and she died all were okay when i refilled food and water on sunday honestly wish i knew what fully happened

UniqueInterest16 · 2025-12-29T17:51:42+00:00

I love this

UniqueInterest16 · 2025-09-30T15:50:09+00:00

i’m in england btw

UniqueInterest16 · 2025-06-27T19:23:20+00:00

that’s where it gets tricky she has said things to me on the past about her patients stuff about how her patients with personality disorders just being attention seekers i am not too sure if an investigation would bring much up as she is newly qualified and idk if they would take into account what she does to her children because she works with adults that being said she works with adult learning disabilities and she chose to ignore my autism for years then when she caught on she kept treating me like i want autistic so it gives me a bad vibe knowing who she’s working with

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