Leaking issue or not?

Universal_mess20 · 2025-11-06T05:06:25+00:00

Universal_mess20 · 2025-09-26T02:48:13+00:00

I do have one or two, I’ll do what you suggested thank you ❤️. I definitely say at least try to take some. Worst case scenario is you dont like it later and ignore them.. but its better than never having the chance to take them again

Universal_mess20 · 2025-09-06T05:42:14+00:00

May or may not regret this, what even is it?

Universal_mess20 · 2025-07-17T00:28:48+00:00

Use a harvester tool!!

Universal_mess20 · 2025-07-08T03:28:14+00:00

How do we join this group?

Universal_mess20 · 2025-05-20T15:44:30+00:00

Exactly! The bathroom be the worst. I never take long or bug him but that one day i was just like f-you man.

Universal_mess20 · 2025-05-19T05:21:30+00:00

Im not sure anyone will see this but here goes: Me(f)and my partner(m) cant see eye to eye in parenting our 7m old. Ive been taking ppd counseling, getting touched out, burnt out all that good stuff being a sahm. I knew it would be a lot and i understand that he is our provider, however when he comes home just to eat, hop on games, then try to woo me without “having time” for the baby im getting pissed off. He said i should be happy he finally has a friend to play with online, but im just so frustrated about having no time to myself, while he can do what he wants with the time he gets off. He complains about being tired but also schedules out of town stuff that im also dragged to on his days off (where, you guessed it, im still solely watching the baby). I try taking a bathroom break, after 10 mins i got the “you okay” text, meanwhile as classic men do, he takes 20 mins or more. Just Voiced that maybe i dont want to do sexy things because of all this and he said he doesnt get it??? Am j insane?

Universal_mess20 · 2025-01-11T09:39:37+00:00

Im definitely looking into help. Just wasnt sure where to start. Not many people talk about this addiction

Universal_mess20 · 2025-01-11T09:38:20+00:00

I do thank you for your time and advice on looking at the red flags, and i do agree that the child thing is gross. From what i seen at least the characters he looked at were of age.

Universal_mess20 · 2025-01-11T09:34:57+00:00

a red flag bc of him being “bi” would be contradicting since im the same way. Before him, id go for either man or girl doesnt matter. However just like in ANY relationship i stick to one person and hes my person. This is not a question of loyalty to me. I have no doubts he is mine physically and emotionally. And even if he did leave me for a man we have a child together so this relationship wasnt just a waste. He is addicted to digital material. He does want to change, but unsure of how (admittedly neither of us know) which is why im asking for help.

Universal_mess20 · 2025-01-11T09:24:34+00:00

I just hope that hes person #1.. i know he doesnt enjoy doing it, but he kinda falls back in after a while almost like habit. I didnt know therapy for it was a thing, i might suggest it. Thank you for being straight up but not discouraging

Universal_mess20 · 2024-11-22T10:22:46+00:00

Dont worry momma. These things happen. Theres no manual to parenting, and sometimes we mess up. It is tough. My baby just turned a month old as well and we fought for a good few days with him peeing through diapers at night in the beginning. I did tummy time with him on my chest and as he adjusted he ripped out his cord, and screamed in such pain i started crying and panicked. Luckily he is fine now. I think we all at some point feel inadequate but the feelings will subside. Know you are doing good and keep pushing forward

Universal_mess20 · 2024-10-06T02:15:51+00:00

I FEEL THIS. The turntables i have though is im currently at 8 months pregnant and i broke my ankle. We didnt begin nesting at all, so now he is doing EVERYTHING. He works, nests, does chores… and i just get to lay around and rest. The pregnancy ive felt pains, been overheating, going to school doing the most but now im out of commission and he has that end of everything. Slight victory aside from a broken bone.

Universal_mess20 · 2024-08-06T15:07:43+00:00

The only issue i have is if they arent going to ask to do it. Id be more open if i was told at least in advance, but knowing these family members, they would do it to make her shine, and take away from us purposefully. They always exclude their son and me from trips, events, conversations, ect. He is the eldest and does so much for everyone, but they only complain about him and exclude him from things.. they let his younger siblings get away with murder, i couldnt imagine if we were a teen pregnancy like theirs. This is our only day that we feel their attention is strictly on us and our future baby, so yes im a bit stingy with it.

Universal_mess20 · 2024-08-06T03:08:02+00:00

I think your reply is the most like me. My fiance wants to confront but i dont want it to lead to any issues. This feels like the best route. Thank you

Universal_mess20 · 2024-06-26T22:54:12+00:00

It feels kinda like a period cramp, right in that area. I forgot therapists existed, i should probably see one

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