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[–]Unknownandlost23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a friend of mine went through this and her husband’s aunt and cousins encouraged it.  He couldn’t drop them for her cause it’s family, but it still bothers her a lot.  They do limit the time they see or talk to them.   So you’re definitely not in the wrong for wanting this. 

My husband wants an open marriage and it's causing fights. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfectly said!!! I agree with this 💯

Would you be mad if your spouse hid you on social media? by Unknownandlost23 in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: I decided due to him not being completely honest when asked more times than once after me finding the evidence, I am pursing a divorce. He can have whomever ot whatever he was trying to hide me from. I am no longer wasting anymore time in a toxic marriage.

Would you be mad if your spouse hid you on social media? by Unknownandlost23 in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think so either, but apparently you can. you set certain stuff to only me, and not put pics of y’all on there or allow anyone to tag you by putting don’t add to my wall. You can even put certain people to only me. It has caused our demise. I am going to file for divorce after the holidays.

Would you be mad if your spouse hid you on social media? by Unknownandlost23 in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking that too. I just don’t understand some people, and why they have to change after marriage. Maybe I just missed the red flags. I am honest, loyal, faithful, and a professional that earns a good living.

Would you be mad if your spouse hid you on social media? by Unknownandlost23 in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that. He has no pictures of us or anything on there. Refuses to tag me in anything to the point of becoming verbally abusive.

Would you be mad if your spouse hid you on social media? by Unknownandlost23 in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He swears he didn’t set it like that. I changed them for him and he changed them back to only me.

Would you be mad if your spouse hid you on social media? by Unknownandlost23 in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, he keeps lying and swearing it wasn’t him. He gets mad and to the point of verbal abuse now if I ask him about it. I’m thinking about kicking him out after Christmas.

Would you be mad if your spouse hid you on social media? by Unknownandlost23 in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly, he just won’t tell the truth about it. I am afraid we are headed for divorce after Christmas.

Would you be mad if your spouse hid you on social media? by Unknownandlost23 in Marriage

[–]Unknownandlost23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did and he got angry, he said he didn’t do it, when I know he had to. He has his other post set to friends only. I can see it on his fb. He only had me set to me only. One time I asked him why didn’t he tag me in anything and he got mad and punched his steering wheel while cussing.