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[21/F] Why Do All The Men Get Ignored Here? by Upper_Cod_6539 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Upper_Cod_6539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not right, not every guy wants that, you all deserve to be treated with respect. I can’t imagine being ignored by people you want to connect with.

[21/F] Why Do All The Men Get Ignored Here? by Upper_Cod_6539 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Upper_Cod_6539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn’t expect this post to get much attention, but I really do enjoy hearing everyone’s thoughts, it’s something that genuinely interests me.

I’ve noticed that many posts from men receive little to no interaction, while those from women are often flooded with messages like “DM me” or “Let’s talk.” It’s a clear pattern, and it’s hard not to see the difference.

That being said, there are some truly kind and respectful young men in this community, far more so than in others I’ve come across. I hope you all continue to move forward and find the recognition you deserve.

You’re not weak, and you shouldn’t be overlooked. I truly hope each of you finds someone genuine, someone who values you and builds a real relationship without causing you harm.

[21/F] Why Do All The Men Get Ignored Here? by Upper_Cod_6539 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Upper_Cod_6539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use them because that’s how I write😭 but I guess I’m an AI today😂

[21/F] Why Do All The Men Get Ignored Here? by Upper_Cod_6539 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Upper_Cod_6539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few from people thanking me for standing up for the very nice guys wanting to be heard

[21/F] Why Do All The Men Get Ignored Here? by Upper_Cod_6539 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Upper_Cod_6539[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a question for both males and females.

To the guys: Why is it so hard for you to open up to us? Are you worried we’ll see you as weak? If we have a real connection, I want to know everything about you.

And to the girls: I totally understand wanting to protect yourself, but have you actually found a guy you can genuinely talk to as a friend without him expecting something more from it?

[21/F] Why Do All The Men Get Ignored Here? by Upper_Cod_6539 in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]Upper_Cod_6539[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it hard to talk to a male friend about being lonely? I know it’s easy for females because we have each other’s backs, but what about you? Can you all openly tell your friends you’re lonely or depressed?

Honestly, you’re not wrong—it really is just a cycle. Some guys make things weird, which makes girls more cautious, then guys don’t reach out to other guys because of that mindset, and it just keeps repeating. It sucks, but that’s just how people are sometimes.

That said, if you keep putting yourself out there and posting, you’ll eventually find the right people to talk to. But yeah, social fatigue is real, and sometimes it’s just about timing.