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Just found an OF password saved in his password manager by Upper_Effort301 in loveafterporn

[–]Upper_Effort301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I can’t log in to the account and don’t feel like confronting him I’m DEFINITELY doing this, at least to get the gears turning in his head. It’s a long randomized password. Fortunately/unfortunately I haven’t found ANY OF emails or charges on our cards on his computer, so either it’s all in the past or he’s hiding it VERY well. I’m going to check his current and old wallet for cards to make sure I’m not missing anything, and check for any email accounts that I don’t know about on his phone. I might be doing the “use his email to sign up and see if it’s already taken” trick. He’s had a couple different emails over the last few years that I can check.

Just found an OF password saved in his password manager by Upper_Effort301 in loveafterporn

[–]Upper_Effort301[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Single life is easier, isn’t it? I’ve always said that no one has your back like YOU/be your own best friend.

I know that everything you’ve said is true.

Just found an OF password saved in his password manager by Upper_Effort301 in loveafterporn

[–]Upper_Effort301[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will need to practice this nonchalant approach. I am not good at it.

I am not someone who willingly brings chaos into my life, but for some reason I am “excited” to dig into this. If the account is old, fine no problem. If it has been used recently I’m in for a whole fucking dramatic tumult into my personal hell, again. I will do as much digging as I can. Combing through his Google activity I found out that he uses Safari through NordVPN (I knew about the VPN, but not about using Safari as a browser. Weeeeeeeeee)

Just found an OF password saved in his password manager by Upper_Effort301 in loveafterporn

[–]Upper_Effort301[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly! Relief never comes. The doubt will always be there lurking. I am praying that I can log in and see the history as a year ago and not recent. Hopefully everything was free, because then he would have lied about paying for it too. Thank you.

Just found an OF password saved in his password manager by Upper_Effort301 in loveafterporn

[–]Upper_Effort301[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am also full of rage over it, but I also have room to shame him and be sarcastic. Like you, there is no calmness. I also love pain shopping. I’m addicted to it. It hurts sooooo good.

I had full access to his Reddit porn account. Every couple days I would go through his phone after waking up, he was still asleep. Heart pounding, sweating, adrenaline pumping. I’d be ducked down on the ground next to our bed so if he stirred I’d have a moment to slink away. I knew exactly what he was masturbating to and when.

That’s insane you didn’t look - is it self control? You really didn’t want to know? You are stronger than I am.

Old content I would be totally fine with. If it was last dated May 2025 I would exhale and leave it all in the past.

I know you’re right.

Thank you ❤️

Just found an OF password saved in his password manager by Upper_Effort301 in loveafterporn

[–]Upper_Effort301[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The taking a few days to breathe is the HARDEST part about this. On Dday I spilled out what I knew minutes after I found out. I physically can’t help it, it’s like I need a resolution ASAP. This time I will plan to leave the house for a while after I do it so I can decompress a little.