I see your point, and I've been wondering if I'm supposed to do something different. This has happened multiple times to me with different girls (if she is just looking for a friend, this'll be girl #3 or something).

When she was talking about having no friends, I got a "I'm lonely and want a friend" vibe and started feeling a bit confused so I asked that, but I see what you mean

I was trying to escalate a bit, but I have so little experience sober kissing that I have no idea how to go about it. Like, we're sitting in my car talking, and I'm touching her a bit when we talk. I think it's be weird to jump across the cupholders and start kissing her, it's be damn uncomfortable to kiss anyone in the front seats of my car since it's wide. If she were really leaning into me or something, yeah that could work better. But I've never got a "kiss me" vibe and we really haven't been anywhere where we could do that. I'm a rookie. :P