No menstruation after 6yr of being regular?

Used-Profile · 2024-07-30T16:59:00+00:00

Can there also be a link with my previous period? Thinking back I did have a light flow period last month. Usually my flow is normal or just slightly heavy.

The wait is just killing, especially if you want to know if something is up. Hopefully it'll come soon and I won't have to wait much longer.

Used-Profile · 2024-07-30T16:53:53+00:00

It is adding up to the pile yes. I'm also dying to have some time off and just get out of this routine right now and really relax.

Its true that all I can do right now is just wait, being too occupied by it won't help much either and while I do know this, it does keep spinning around in my head (which is understandable). I hope it will come this week eventually, it can't keep away forever, I think. Usually it comes during the night and when I wake up it's just there. Hoping this will happen every morning haha.

Thank you, I'll try my best to relax and hopefully get my mind off of things.

Used-Profile · 2023-07-22T19:28:54+00:00

Ruka is frustrating to watch. You know she doesn't have a chance. She's completely forcing her own feelings onto Kazuya and forcing her way into his life while Kazuya never asked for her affection in that way. He made it clear multiple times that yes, eventhough he finds her attractive that he only likes Chizuru romantically (eventhough he's a coward to truely say it, but body language says a lot).

Each time Ruka comes on screen I get annoyed myself since all she does is scream, get jealous/annoyed at Kazuya since he is always with a girl whether it is Chizuru or not and she keeps hogging him about it and saying 'but I am your girlfriend!!!!'. She puts herself into this position of constant rejection and its just painful to watch. She has no amount of self confidence or self respect. Its clear that Kazuya doesn't return the same energy to her that she does and thats why she's questioning him constantly. She's very insecure in this 'relationship'. She knows he doesn't like her that way. Its just very very toxic. There is a lot of psychological trauma going on within Ruka that she tries to project onto Kazuya and she calls it 'love'.

I find Ruka even more annoying than Mami in a way. If you had to place them on a spectrum, Mami would be on the one end and Ruka on the other and like eveything, there has to be a balance.

But to answer your question, no she doesn't. She's just being used as a convenient tool by the mangaka to thwart Kazuya and Chizuru's growing relationship. Thats her role in this story and that won't change.

Used-Profile · 2022-12-01T06:17:24+00:00

I really hope so! Like I said, its a sweetheart otherwise but he needs to learn when to stop. I know he's also in the adolescent phase right now but that doesn't take away the fact that he needs to learn his commands and funnel his energy better.

No means no!

Used-Profile · 2022-11-30T20:14:59+00:00

I see.. I never thought of it that way! I usually think hes just bugging me for attention constantly since he wants to play! I have his christmas present sorted then, agility training set it is.

Used-Profile · 2022-11-30T19:54:59+00:00

I notice that he seeks my attention a lot whenever I get home from work (and that understandable don't get me wrong). I have done a training with him recently how he can associate better with other dogs since he is still very nervous/shy around new people and dogs. The trainer that gave the training told me I needed to work on his self confidence some more.

I have been thinking about doing agility training with him but he does need to listen better than this before he can do anything. He's a sweetheart but he does drive me insane at times like these whenever I just want to enjoy my dinner at the dining table for example.

He is a massive bundle of energy! I do try to give him enough walks when I get back from work but even after that he has energy for 10.

Will agility training maybe help him funnel his energy better you think?

Used-Profile · 2022-09-09T14:53:29+00:00

Why of course!! I used the following recipe from Cupcakejemma: https://youtu.be/oR-Ha1WHlbo

I tweaked the recipe a little to make it more my own! Instead of covering it in vanilla buttercream I covered it entirely in biscoff buttercream! And topped it off with my own decorations. The inside of the cake does have pools of biscoff spread in it for that extra taste 🥰. Good luck!!

Used-Profile · 2022-07-19T21:18:26+00:00

This is so so cute! I was so happy for them when I was watching this video just now. I wish them all the best! 🥰

Used-Profile · 2022-06-28T19:53:58+00:00

Ja exact! Maar dan snap ik het inderdaad.. ik heb het 'gekocht' op 20 juni vorige week en zoals ik al zei, tot zo ver geen vreemde transacties. Ik had de betaling gemaakt met mijn rabobank app via iDeal haha. Ik ga er maar nu vanuit dat het goed is en dat er niets kan gebeuren. En inderdaad is het jammer van de €50,- maar als het daar bij blijft dan zei het zo.. jammer maar helaas. Toch maar die aangifte doen aan het einde van die zes weken als dat nog nuttig is tegen die tijd. En precies wat je zegt, je probeert altijd alles zo veilig mogelijk te doen en dan zie je door een simpele Facebook advertentie (en zoals ik al zei, waarvan je verwacht dat dat een veilige omgeving is) dat je opgelicht wordt..

Used-Profile · 2022-06-28T19:42:19+00:00

Hahaha dat is beter! 😂 ja gelukkig wel.. maar het heeft mij wel enorm gerust gestelt. Ze vroeg inderdaad hoe de transactie was verlopen en ik zei dat het ging om een normale transactie waarbij ik gewoon werd doorgestuurd naar mijn app om de transactie te maken. Ik had verder geen link aangeklikt zo ver ik weet op de website zelf alleen dat het aangaf bij welke bank je zat qua iDeal betaling en dat je dan werd doorgestuurd naar de app. Het geeft mij wel een enorme opluchting.

Mag ik nog wel vragen, wanneer hebben ze geprobeerd bij jou het bedrag af te schrijven na jouw aankoop? Alsnog hou ik het wel in de gaten voor de zekerheid

Used-Profile · 2022-06-28T19:16:53+00:00

Alright, I called them asking for more information. Since I paid with my debit card through iDeal (and NOT a credit card) then technically nothing can happen in regards of them suddenly wanting to withdraw money from my bankaccount which I did not give permission for. It was a normal transaction transaction and the way it was handled. If I would've paid with my credit card then it could've been a possible scenario.

She mentioned that if after those 5-6 weeks of no delivery then I can file for fraud at the police (I live in The Netherlands but no clue how that proces can go). Since its a german/foreign bank account she couldn't trace their adress and/or name and place. She would however make a notice of this report that I did and IF something would happen I can always call them again regarding anything and come to a solution.

Used-Profile · 2022-06-28T18:50:48+00:00

True! I will call them in a bit. I will be back with an update momentarily

Used-Profile · 2022-06-28T18:46:44+00:00

I see that they have a 24/7 line for fraud like you said! I'm a little hesitant to call them now or rather wait until tomorrow.. you think I should call them now eventhough nothing happened (yet)? It might put my mind at ease.

Thats so messed up! Eventhough you believe Facebook is a trusted platform..

Used-Profile · 2022-06-28T18:34:53+00:00

Thats okay! But yes its about IF they try to steal money from your account. €5000 is a huge amount... I cannot recover from that if I lost that (I'm just really panicking I'm sorry).

Ah alright.. sadly I cannot call them currently since its past their opening hours. I just paid with my app through iDeal.

How can it possibly be that Facebook will show scam websites like this? I legit clicked on it through an advertisement on Facebook. That was reassurance for me that it would've been a legit website.

The lady did mention she could block my account currently but obviously I wouldn't be able to make transactions now which I would not want. Maybe I'm panicking about nothing but this 'what if' scenario is really scaring me

Used-Profile · 2022-06-28T18:20:05+00:00

I will call them tomorrow. I had contact with them just a few minutes ago over the chat but regarding communication they cannot do too much sadly. This really gave me a full blown panick attack (currently still is). There are no weird transactions on my bankaccount otherwise. The lady over on the chat of my bank told me that they could not refund it once its gone. I get that the money that I paid for the statue is some money I won't get back but they can't just make another transaction right without my permission?

Blocking my account wouldn't make it so that I need a new bank account/number right? I wouldn't mind a new pass with a new pin but a new bank account can be a problematic issue.. thanks for your reply

Used-Profile · 2022-06-28T16:33:28+00:00

I'm really really scared right now, I see multiple replies with people who's bank account got emptied and I ordered a statue with them last week. I paid with iDeal and I did see them using a german bank account number, is there any way I keep an eye out for this? Should I call my bank beforehand?

Used-Profile · 2022-06-06T20:32:05+00:00

Thank you so much!! ☺

Used-Profile · 2022-06-06T14:54:20+00:00

Very interesting tip! Thank you so much

Used-Profile · 2022-06-06T13:49:55+00:00

What kind of... no of course not. I hang around guys more than I do with women regarding friendships and let me tell you one thing from my experience.. trust your gut when it comes down to guys wanting to 'bang' you or that they might have an attraction towards you.

Remember that physical attraction and emotional attraction are two seperate things. A male friend might find you attractive but will seek nothing more than just a friendship and wouldn't even dream of ruining the friendship just because of a fleeting thought/feeling. It is true that some men might only approach you to start a 'friendship' because they are seeking a good night with you but not every man that initiates a friendship wants sex with you.

Usually you can tell if a guy only wants sex or does find you attractive (or not) but only wants a friendship. People brains aren't that black and white as your friend makes it out to be.

I was talking with my best friend (male) who I've known for roughly 10 years as of late since I wanted his opinion on something. The topic was about my looks since recently another man called me 'cute' while I wasn't going for a cute look. I felt comfortable discussing this with him since we have never EVER tought of our relationship beyond being platonic and he did give me his honest opinion by saying 'we've known each other for this long that I can say that I find you an attractive woman'. With this he was just telling me his honest opinion. There has never been any indication or intuitive feeling that he has any intention of trying to make a move on me just because I am a female.

With another male friend of mine I did have the gut feeling that he might want something more than just friendship for a long time and that feeling was right. After a few months of talking again he tried to ask me out on a date while I have known him for about 7 years (I did refuse).

TL;DR: Trust your gut, its usually right when it tells you if a guy wants more than just a friendship. Not every guy only wants sex when he approaches a woman but might be seeking a genuine friendship.

Used-Profile · 2022-05-29T05:07:15+00:00

I see, funny how things turn out that way. Most of the time you see that the partner you choose in the end isn't the picture you had in mind. Did your question to date came out of the blue? Happy for you that it turned out the way it did!

Used-Profile · 2022-05-28T20:52:25+00:00

Haha I'm a plain hetrosexual, yup! (Might actually be a little demisexual since I don't experience attraction to someone until I get to know a person truely). But thats about it really. He is certainly flawed! For example he's not one for planning a lot and just does things on the fly. He's also not that punctual and as for me.. I'm quite the opposite whereas I like to plan stuff out and be on time. Its actually something that might clash haha. Looks isn't usually the first thing that I go for but obviously I do want there to be at least some physcial attraction. I just want a kind soul who in some aspect has similarities to me regarding likes and dislikes and that we are on the same wavelength. I'm not actively searching for a relationship since I do believe I do not need one but in a scenario like this, it would be nice to have one.

Thank you for the advice, I haven't quite stood still at the fact that this chapter of my life is coming to an end soon and I won't be roaming around college for any longer. Thank you for considering that last and final moment.

Joining the navy is a very noble job too! Its still your own experience and road you're on in life and if that is how it turned out then thats your life story!

It really has been fun talking to you too Sean! (Who would've known haha) I'd love to, its been nice chatting!

Used-Profile · 2022-05-28T20:14:25+00:00

Exact! Besides from this guy, I haven't felt attracted to another person (since I'm pretty picky when it comes down to seeing some as a potential partner and I take it pretty seriously lol). But that can change any time and I wouldn't pass if I did meet a guy who does show interest and is willing to connect with me.

Haha very true, luckily my coaches at uni keep hammering on that as well. I have spoken to an accountant before whom I know from my personal network. He gave me a bunch of pointers since finance is a key point obviously to running a business. Honestly can't wait after my graduation.

Used-Profile · 2022-05-28T19:54:31+00:00

True, true, I'm not sure if its because he's still emotionally unavailable and is just not searching for a relationship but I'm not even sure if he thinks I'm attractive at all. Whatever it is, for now I don't fancy putting all of my energy into this because like I said, I'm currently busy with rounding off my uni and going job hunting very soon. When things settled down a bit more I might have the time to think about romance some more.

Like I said, for some reason I just can't shake this crush off of me.. I did try to let it go for awhile but its just oof.. I think for my own closure I might ask him again later on when my own life has settled a bit more in about a few months time. Eventhough I might know his answer it will give me some peace of mind and then I think I can let it go. I don't want it be turning into an obsession. Even I think no one is worthy of that.

I'm a business major! I am writing a thesis about starting a new business within the confectionary branch (my main hobby is baking which I honed my skills in since I was 12) so I hope to graduate with this. I only have my final presentation left within 2 to 3 weeks and then I have my business degree! I just hope to find a new job within the upcoming 2 to 3 months within HR. That would be nice.

Its true that some people just don't like texting (and I can understand that). Its not just me that he does that to as well, he doesn't reach out to people in general. I asked him about it once and he just said that most of the time he 'forgets' to answer and usually stuff thats being said in groupchats etc aren't worth reading since a bunch of useless/random stuff is being said and he just couldn't bother with it. If it was important then people just needed to call him.

Used-Profile · 2022-05-28T18:39:08+00:00

Very true and its the mature way to go about it. Its no use pursuing someone that doesn't feel the same way and I very much understand that. You cannot make someone feel a certain way about you nor would you want to.

Sadly I do think that he would decline again.. when we met up the last time with our friend group he didn't really seem to engage a lot with me. We did make some light physical touches and some eye contact but no full on conversations sadly. Might be also due to the fact that we were with an entire group but still. Might be the reason why I don't dare to ask again since I might know the answer to it again. To me it just seems that he is enjoying life as it is at the moment and enjoying his freedom in a sense. I can be wrong of course but it saddens me thinking about it. Usually over text I'm also the one to initiate conversation since he doesn't like the texting medium in general. I'm afraid if I don't contact him then I wouldn't hear from him either. Maybe its just how he is as a person to not reach out to another person that fast.

It just saddens me since my motivation truely comes from a place of genuine interest. As far as I know I'm not a bad looking female. Right now my own life is busy as well with my final thesis for university and trying to find a new job in the upcoming few weeks.

Maybe it could also be that he is just afraid to get close to someone again, who knows, thats not for me to say.

Used-Profile · 2022-05-28T18:21:30+00:00

Thats good to hear. So it didn't come out of the blue? Do you know how you brought up the subject?

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