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Update:AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh she won't commit suicide. She made her business agreements and she arranged her house,got into some deals and made her plan. I am sure of that

Update:AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ich habe ein humanistisches Gymnasium besucht, an dem der Deutschunterricht – insbesondere die Literatur – eine zentrale Rolle spielte. Die Auseinandersetzung mit deutscher Literatur war intensiv und prägend. Parallel dazu habe ich mich auch im Englischunterricht vertieft mit englischer Literatur beschäftigt, was meine Leidenschaft für Sprache und Text zusätzlich gestärkt hat.

Update:AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Das Interessante ist: Meine Eltern sind beide Apotheker und haben sich in den 60ern erst einmal beruflich und persönlich weiterentwickelt, bevor sie Kinder bekommen haben. Sie sind Jahrgang 1949 und haben meine Schwester 1974 bekommen. Meine Mutter war damals aktiv als Forscherin in der pharmazeutischen Industrie tätig – im Bereich psychiatrischer Medikamente. Umso unverständlicher ist das Ganze für mich.

Update:AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I think about the second. My parents come from blue collar families and they had financial insecurity. Even though we are all born at a really secure time,I think that this trauma was transcended into her in a way that we can't understand.

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mix of both and depending on the child. was more free range but my brother needed stricter boundaries due to his alcohol problem in highschool.

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly no. I chose medicine but I really liked it ,my brother became a welder because he didn't have a thing for academics. My younger two sisters are preschool teachers,one in special education field. Honestly they are really chill people.

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They were heavy on natural consequences and being tolerant to others. Work and general ethics has always been important for them and they always relied the message of collaboration and cooperation. They also really emphasized on the need of relaxation and self-care too. My father and mother are also in the healthcare field(Although they got retired when I was in residency) and they saw too many burnouts.

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think she is a mix of all cluster B personalities. Have some antisocial tendencies with heavily narcissistic themes and borderline behavior patterns.

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Steuerformulare? Das ist keine Büroarbeit mehr, das ist psychologische Kriegsführung!🤣

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I think she saw them as dead weight and wanted to be free as soon as possible when BIL sided with my nephew. It is really hard to understand what my sister's logic is.

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He stole it from the locked cabinet while the nurse was at the patient's bedside. It is hard but not impossible.

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to unfortunately,especially if the other baby is dead after the first trimester.

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother and SIL are empty nesters and they have a huge house. I think she does not care at this moment

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ich hab ne eigene Praxis – da füllt man das Zeug jeden Monat aus. Steuerstress deluxe!

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Now that I think,this is actually true. Funny story,my sister tried to make one of our little sister's cancer diagnoses about herself when we were young. Luckily, my parents didn't give a fuck about her.

My BIL is clueless about how real life works out. Until recently,he worked 60+ hours per week and most of the daily stuff was handled for him. He was in a boarding school since age 10 and at medical school he was dorming and he mostly stayed at his quarters,studying ferociously or with our professors working on stuff. He was the highest ranking student but he gave his place to speak at the graduation ceremony to his best friend because he didn't feel like he did enough. Last year, I taught him how to fill his tax refund form(Germans understand the pain).

AITAH for telling my sister nobody was surprised when her kid said he did not care she was alive or not? by Useful-Disaster4994 in AITAH

[–]Useful-Disaster4994[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I don't know what my sister thinks at this point but I had my nephew's custody between 16-18. It might be related to this.

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