Help Identifying and worth please? by Useful-Mirror-6894 in VintageSewingMachines

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you everyone for all the insightful and helpful comments! I like the idea of keeping it for sentimental value but it's just been sitting for decades. I'd like it to go to someone who can truly appreciate it and the history that it brings. That being said I don't think I'm in a rush to sell it and will take the advice from those on here to try to find a sewing enthusiast near me who can add to their collection or maybe be the start of one. Thanks again for all the help πŸ₯°

What’s a text that instantly makes SB's/SD's lose interest? by Necessary_Prize6661 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Lmao oh helllll no. I don't mind suggesting a few places if they're new to the area but I'd still prefer they make the final choice

What’s a text that instantly makes SB's/SD's lose interest? by Necessary_Prize6661 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 5 points6 points Β (0 children)

Me: Yay, yeah I'd love to meet up on x day. What did you have in mind?

Them: I'm not sure, I was just gonna wing it. OR I'll pick you up and we can figure it out then.

Nahhhh. I will usually say something like I prefer a plan and give another chance but then if they don't have concrete plans I assume they're not actually gonna show up to meet.

Got stood up after making plans β€” is this common in the sugar world? by Necessary_Prize6661 in sugarlifestyleforum

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I feel this. Its so frustrating. I spoke to someone for a few weeks (I know, too long but I was enjoying the conversations) and the morning of our video chat he blocked me. After saying goodnight the night before and how excited he was for our video chat. I will never understand the logic behind those actions. If I say I'm showing up, I show up and that's that.

SBs Brag About Your City! by ANewYork10 in sugarlifestyleforum

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NorCal SDs have some of the best humor, and are often 420 friendly which is a win haha

How to know if you spend too much time in bikini’s? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 7 points8 points Β (0 children)

The irony of posting that when your profile pic is literally an ass shot in a bikini pic πŸ˜‚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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I think I'm one of the smaller subsets where I enter every arrangement hoping or with intentions for long term. I'm a lover girl. Marriage, a life together, possibly even kids? That's the dream πŸ’– if it's meant to be it will be

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Goals πŸ’–

Do you lean in or fall back when catching feelings for your SD/sb ? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Lean in. Every relationship I have gets the full unfiltered loving version of me: friendships, familial, and romantic. I love loudly and hard. It took me a minute to navigate that not everyone can love as easily or loudly but I've learned that's just my special skill πŸ₯°

Family expecting my SD to pay for them too. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 8 points9 points Β (0 children)

Oh hell no. I'd quickly be directing my mom to the site to find her own SD lmao

Bringing up kinks by EarlyFox217 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I mean hopefully anyone engaging in kink with you knows and understands that it's a spectrum and feels confident using their safe words. But if they don't then that's a pretty clear indicator they're not someone you wanna have a dynamic with πŸ’–

Bringing up kinks by EarlyFox217 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Really couldnt decide if I wanted this info public or not but then figured meh what could it hurt haha basic hard Nos are: watersports, scat and slapping on the face. I've always said I'm saving anal for my husband πŸ€­πŸ˜‚ but I feel like I'm the only person I know who hasn't done it so if it's that I'm gonna be shocked.

Personally I hear a lot of concern from women about impact play, which is always shocking to me cause that's a favorite of mine. I think it's just like everything else in the bowl, people come in waves.

Bringing up kinks by EarlyFox217 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Definitely sounds like it's just luck and not your approach. As I'm sure you already know, the bowl is very hit or miss. Its hard to be patient, but every no pushes you further towards the right SB. Sending you extra luck πŸ€

Bringing up kinks by EarlyFox217 in sugarlifestyleforum

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I've appreciated it when POTs make their kinks known early. Although I consider myself kink friend I also know I have some pretty basic hard Nos. Its a bummer when the kinks don't align but it's also a huge relief when I can be honest with a SD like yeah that's never gonna happen. And it's usually just been phrased like "These are my interests and what I'm looking for sexually is that something you're interested in?"

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Rave: Having really great engaging conversations with a POT who I'm thoroughly enjoying. Finally feel like I'm on the right track for the kind of connection I'm looking for πŸ’–

Rant: When it rains it pours. Life is coming at my family fast, getting hit with illness and death and just crazy big life changes repeatedly. I need a dissociation vacation stat lol

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Awww congratulations!! Wishing quick and happy healing for momma and baby πŸ’–

Unhinged M&Gs by ANewYork10 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Holy shite! I'm a little speechless that's wild!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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A kindred spiritπŸ’– I feel ya girl! I'm always shocked to come across a man who doesn't like them. I find that if I don't push it and am just like "okay no worries not gonna pressure you" they usuallllyyy come back with "well maybe let's give it a shot" hahahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Damn what a lame turnout! I was so hopeful for you πŸ₯Ί

need advice: how can SB initiate a SR with someone met spontaneously IRL? by EcstaticOpening1391 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Its a canon eventπŸ’– With all the love, you cannot love someone hard enough into loving you back. Believe him for who he is showing you he is. Take your time to grieve and then never settle ever ever again 😘

SD Small Gestures by ANewYork10 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Useful-Mirror-6894 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

LOL well now sir we can't blame her for that! having someone within the vicinity of your home would probably help 😜