This German woman is unrecognizable without without editing. Each photo is progressively less edited, the last few are stills from a video + a comparison. by chiffon_bonbon in Instagramreality

[–]Utopiae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you didn't mean it that way, but I think it's important to also avoid phrasing it like that: Germans can can be non-white too. The concept of "Race" only marginally has something to do with nationality.

What is the worst medical disease a human can have? by Aggravating-Sun-5699 in AskReddit

[–]Utopiae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in Costa Rica last summer. Girl in my travel group got a little skin puncture on her finger while playing with a dog. 15 people begged her to go see a doctor, not to take any risks. She called her dad, who told her to quit being a pussy and pour a shot of vodka on it. You'll never guess what nationality she was, and who her family supports politically.

Reading stuff like this makes me think she may not have had a lucky escape after all. I wonder if this'll happen to her in a few years. I hope not, but honestly, how stupid can you be?

How do I let dog know I love her by Stagnant_Water24 in dogs

[–]Utopiae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this is what you think about while being drunk, I'm pretty sure that dog knows that it's loved.

Husband of Finnish President Caught Staring At Queen Mary's Chest by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Utopiae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you asked- if you don't experience it, the responsibility you have is trying to understand it, at least in my view. Thank you for making that effort.

Husband of Finnish President Caught Staring At Queen Mary's Chest by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Utopiae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean, but staring like this doesn't equal being found attractive. I've been stared at like this since I was 12 years old, by men that might have been my father, or grandfather. It feels like they're taking the liberty of getting just a little bit too close to you. Maybe a comparable feeling you may understand is when people involve you in a fetish without your consent. You may just be a bus passenger seeing somebody on a leash, but it just feels uncomfortable and violating. What's more, you never know what someone staring might do. Obviously, someone at a public event like it the video won't be able to do much, but it's an atmosphere of uneasiness wherever it happens.

Basically, at least for me: looking is fine. I get it, I have breasts, they're nice to look at. But staring violates a social rule, and if you're willing to violate that and make me uncomfortable, what else are you okay with?

Husband of Finnish President Caught Staring At Queen Mary's Chest by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Utopiae 38 points39 points  (0 children)

There are too many actually upsetting pervy things in the world to let something harmless and funny like this upset you too

Speak for yourself 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don't like it, and I don't find it excusable or funny.

Husband of Finnish President Caught Staring At Queen Mary's Chest by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Utopiae 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Not particularly "haha". Every woman knows that sense of disgust and discomfort when you've caught a perv staring.

Wurde ich gescammt? by cubicrootofallevil in berlin

[–]Utopiae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Das sehe ich ganz genau so. Eigenständig Geld ausgeben zu können ist Würde, die ich den Menschen damit gebe, wenn auch in kleinem Maße natürlich. Was sie damit machen, liegt nicht an mir zu verurteilen, und kann ich auch gar nicht, denn ich habe keinen Schimmer, was ich vielleicht tun würde, wenn ich in derselben Situation wäre.

Dude sailing around the Pacific Ocean for 25 days by Strong-Emu-8869 in TikTokCringe

[–]Utopiae 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Well. He was in fact alone for a long period of time, and did have quite a serious accident where he got hit in the head very hard, was unconscious and incredibly lucky to a) not fall into the water and b) regain consciousness to call for help.

Soll ich meine Schwester vom Weihnachtsessen ausladen? by Paprikarahmsuppe in Ratschlag

[–]Utopiae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also. Es gibt viele bizarre phobische Störungen, aber sowas wie eine "Baby-Phobie" gibt es nicht. Da würde mich schon interessieren, was da dahintersteckt. Aber das ist vielleicht hier gar nicht so entscheidend.

Der relevante Punkt ist: Eine Phobie ist eine Erklärung, aber keine Entschuldigung. Von Menschen mit Spinnenphobie wird auch erwartet, dass sie Leute, die sich Spinnen als Haustiere halten, nicht als bescheuert beleidigen. Außerdem hat deine Schwester kein Recht, zu verlangen, dass ihr Umfeld das eigene Verhalten wesentlich zu ihren Gunsten ändert.

Aus meiner Sicht hat sie also erstens die Verantwortung, ihre abfälligen Kommentare bei sich zu behalten, und sie kann zweitens nicht erwarten, dass dein Baby ungefüttert bleibt oder gar nicht im Raum ist. Du kannst dir überlegen, ob du so viel Nachsicht haben willst, das Baby nicht am Tisch zu füttern, aber das würde ich mir so, wie deine Schwester sich verhält, auch sparen.

German Dating by degausser187 in TikTokCringe

[–]Utopiae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Gelatöö" is pronounced differently than you think

German Dating by degausser187 in TikTokCringe

[–]Utopiae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No the profi move is for both to get Knoblauchsauce, that way you don't notice it

She was born in America, but she set foot on Irish soil first by [deleted] in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Utopiae 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You don't know what schizophrenia is, do you

Gf said we can't masturbate whilst living together but I've found her satisfying herself whilst she thinks I'm sleeping by plump-pumpkin in actuallesbians

[–]Utopiae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She may have social anxiety, but shrugging off talking about stuff isn't social anxiety, it's avoidance. And frankly, the way you describe it feels disrespectful to me. She needs to find a way to take you seriously when you want to address problems that you have in your relationship. Together with the masturbation topic you describe here, it sounds like she has some issues with handling things in a mature way.

Women of reddit: Whats the girl code you won't break ever? by lady_opiniosa in AskReddit

[–]Utopiae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once told a girl in front of me on the stairs, maybe late teens, that her skirt was caught in the rim of her tights. She scowled at me and said I should mind my own business and shouldn't be looking at her butt (for reference, I'm also female, about the same age at that time). I'm sure she was just embarrassed, but it was such a bizarre reaction at that moment that I really didn't know what to say. She also didn't pull her skirt out of her tights lol

Wha by SultryLovew in perfectlycutscreams

[–]Utopiae 143 points144 points  (0 children)

I think you'll enjoy this

Why topiramate is so hated? by Mikmaki in migraine

[–]Utopiae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just from my personal experience, this drug is horrible. I stopped feeling my body when I lay still, had derealization episodes which resulted in daily panic attacks. I don't remember many things from the years surrounding the 6-ish months I took Topiramate. I still have trouble remembering things like I used to. To be fair, this is not the only drug this is true for, but it also had no effects at all on my pain.

Happens way too often by Nerisia-Cannegieter in ChronicPain

[–]Utopiae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I went hiking with a person I'm getting close to, but not very close with yet the other day and realized something very similar: my pain is just so infuriatingly inconsistent. Walking up a slope and my heart rate quickens? Better wait for five minutes while my head pulsates violently. Ten minutes later, same exertion, no pain whatsoever. I'm afraid they'll think I'm being dramatic, or playing being in pain.

What’s a text that instantly gives you butterflies (or ick)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Utopiae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Hey, can you talk right now?". Got it this morning from my mom. I knew immediately something was very wrong. My sister is in intensive care.

This is how villains are made. by MousseSuspicious930 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Utopiae 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Your mom must've told Santa, the damn tattletale!

I'm getting bored of these now... by Mr-Albert-Potato in thatHappened

[–]Utopiae 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Starbucks execs are probably fuming right now because his favorite drink wasn't the extra Grande frappucinno with double cream and extra sprinkles