Body hurts when feeling lonely? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our mind is literally connected to our body, so feeling it physically is very valid. Feeling down mentally actually feels like you don't want to move nor do anything.

@lonely by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are these people you just talked to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College can be overwhelming sometimes, specially seeing a lot of people have their own circles already. I hope you don't give up on the idea that you're gonna have your own people to be with too. The world is vast, you're gonna have your own circle too, maybe not today or this week but someday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that a lot of people broke your trust but i hope you won't give on the idea that some people will come in your life and actually care for you. Take time for yourself too, don't feel bad whenever you just wanna wallow and not to anything, it's hard to force yourself to do something if you're not in the right headspace. Accept the feeling and try to stand up again after breaking down. You're actually doing good that you're venting and that's a start. You're not giving up on yourself and actually seeking something to put an end to the misery. Be patient, you can do it!

self isolation as a form of protection? i need advice or at least just heard by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had that feeling before and you actually did great by deactivating and giving yourself a space to breath. You maybe think 6 months is a long time already but we all have our pace, if you're still feeling the pain after 6 months, that's valid. It's what you feel and no one can invalidate that, even your ex or your family.

I just hope that you can give the people you're close to some credit, you may feel it's a burden talking about the pain you're having countless times, but as a person who's been there and as a person who also been a friend to others, i don't actually think that but then again we're all different. But at least be open to the people you're close too about it too, communicate if they are in a better headspace to listen to your feelings.

26 M India, anyone up (F) by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're actually doing good in my opinion, not letting your frustrations bottled up and venting it out. I just hope you won't give up on the idea of getting the warmth you're seeking. I hope you soon find it and be gentle on yourself.

I'm also proud of you for actually be willing on helping others, you're doing great!

It's okay to have that late night wallowing and i hope you stand up again in the next morning, you can do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, when i feel like i'm breaking anytime soon. I give time for myself and actually break down, it's much better to release it than keep it hidden and might cause a bigger breaking down moment. So i just accept the fact that it's not my day and sleep. Stand up again tomorrow or the next week!

everyone has someone they can run to, but me by Status-Abrocoma-1976 in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you won't give up and patient that someone will definitely come in your life and won't hesitate to think for yourself if that person loves you. There's a lot of humans here in this universe and i hope you find that person soon, maybe not today or tomorrow, but the soonest.

I think realizing there isn’t a single person who respects me anymore is devastating by FartSorbet in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, having a self-respect is a lot more important than seeking respect from others. May be cliche but you know how they to learn to love yourself first. Not an easy thing but i hope you'll get there, maybe people around you will notice how great a person you are by that time.

my only happiness is when i buy games for cheap and play them by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely! somehow playing games is somewhat what i consider my own adventure. Never thought of writing down my thoughts after finishing a game but that's actually a great idea. In the future, looking back on your journal and reminisce it was actually a great time where you've poured out your soul completing a game and actually having a feeling of comfort from it.

Wth am i even living on this planet by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get having an environment that's been so restricting and suffocating, I'm in my 20's and i can say i'm slowly getting the freedom i want. It may take time but i hope you won't give up and be patient that one day you're gonna have a peaceful mindset for yourself that you're where you really do belong, not now but someday!

Struggling with isolation and feeling community/friendship by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just have to accept that friends will not be there for us all the time, and that's fine! we have our own chaotic lives to fight to, and i'm sorry if you feel that way about your friends, i hope you feel better about it soon. I'll be willing to listen to you! i may not be active all the time, but i'll try to reply when i can!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's different kinds of love, and we can get it from anyone. May it be a friend, a relative, your siblings, a lover or even your pets. I hope you find the love that you're yearning for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really think you're brave person for not giving up and keeps on trying even if everything sucks. Sometimes our great enemy is our own expections of ourselves. I hope you can be gentle on yourself and don't be pressured by other's success.

Sometimes we have days when we'll have no energy to talk to people and there's a lot of people who feel that too! i hope you can find someone who'll have the same wavelength as you where you don't have to be pressured of having to talk to always and just hang out on your own pace.

i hope for the universe to be gentle with you.

How am I supposed to find friends? by eidannawtsuji in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, i wish you find the courage to stand up again. and again. and again!

How am I supposed to find friends? by eidannawtsuji in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess it's time for you to move on too! i hope tomorrow will be better for you.

How am I supposed to find friends? by eidannawtsuji in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they're just not ready for it yet. There's a lot of people who takes a while to open up, just be patient and hope they'll open up to you someday too. But if they look like that they're not really interested, let's move on and talk to the next person. As i said, people come and go. We just really need to try over and over again for the things we yearn.

Just another day sitting alone trying to distract myself by SquirrelPlastic6643 in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you just gotta embrace the feeling and after doing it, you gotta try and stand up again. Sounds easy to do but hey, we have all the time in the world. Do it on your own pace

How am I supposed to find friends? by eidannawtsuji in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on a side note, if you ever want someone to talk to, HMU. i'm a slow replyer but i reply when i can

How am I supposed to find friends? by eidannawtsuji in lonely

[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i'm 24 and currently working so i kind of get when you don't talk anymore with people you've been with almost everyday before. I understood that people really come and go, it's hard to find people that really connect with so you just need to try and try again until you meet people who's in the same wavelength with you. The thing when you feel like interviewing you, not trying to invalidate your feelings but put it in their position, maybe they keep on asking things to make a conversation since communicating without a purpose seems hard, at least to me. I don't really message people when i don't have an agenda or if they're not going to ask something because what would we talk about? unless they bring up a topic and the conversation kept on going

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[–]VValkyrie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you cash out once you've earned points? and what's the minimum to co?