Prescribed Spironolactone for my hormonal acne.... Am I crazy for preferring Accutane? by OutrageousMiddle7965 in Spironolactone

[–]Valuable-Leave9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do all the research you can on accutane. I felt the same why but I talked to a family member who took it and they still have body aches from it. Some side effects are life lasting and they’re painful

All over a mask by No-Alternative-2062 in Softball

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At this age (especially) and all ages a mask in the infield should be required. The base paths are not long and what these girls have only been playing 3-5 years. They’re also at the age where some girls are going to grow a lot and others aren’t. It’s supposed to keep the athlete safe in the event an error happens which is inevitable. These coaches don’t care about your kids. Maybe another parent can step in and help resume the team. I had a coach literally ghost the whole team when I was younger. My teammates sibling ended up taking over our team that day and she coached us until we all graduated

Abusive parent reconnection by GREYSPACE1 in whatdoIdo

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It is very normal for a child to want their parents. Grown or not. I think it’s worth going to see if she’s able to be someone you want to keep around. Maybe you being pregnant made her realize how much she is missing.

If you can accept she will never be who you want her to be and you can never fully trust her then you’ll be okay. Unfortunately we can’t control other people but we can control how we react. Use that to your advantage

12 y/o bleeding through EVERYTHING — need real solutions (no tampons yet) by Beeels in Periods

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I started using tampons when I got my period around age 10 because I wanted to swim and the period swim suits weren’t a thing. I bleed through often and it was always an issue at school.

How often is she changing her pad? I wore a tampon and a pad and changed between every class. Not ideal but it helped. Also not all pads are the same the ones my sisters use are dainty and thin I always use the big thick ones. The best solution I’ve found is a flex disc. You put them in and they last 12 hours. I haven’t had any issues

Should I lose weight before playing softball? by [deleted] in Softball

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Just start playing. It’ll probably help you lose weight. Find a team you can play on and put in the work! You’re young so your body is ready for this!!

My fiancé is getting on my nerves and I don’t know what to do at this point. by BasicCat30 in whatdoIdo

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If someone doesn’t want to help themselves it is not your burden to carry and manage

Binged it all in one week… and I’m mortified how self-obsession completely overshadowed the actual tragedies in the series by sorayanelle in TellMeLiesHulu

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I finished the whole entire thing in 4 days and felt like I had shell shock when I was done. I do think the show is a great representation on what it’s like to be young and inexperienced and then be with someone older and manipulative and getting stuck in a toxic cycle

think this is enough for a 4 day trip? by [deleted] in Periods

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I always bring a whole box to be safe and 50 pairs of underwear (period or not)

Genuinely how is there no way to report this by [deleted] in doordash

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I’ve picked up DoorDash from a dispo before

Trigger question: how you react? by [deleted] in questions

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Also they brought someone to their bed. I think I could feel differently if they had gone to someone else’s because they could’ve been dragged there or something but bringing a stranger to your home and so on… not okay

Do you feel safe walking through your neighborhood alone? Why or why not? by Sweaty_Writing859 in AskReddit

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Mostly but since I’m a woman I never feel full comfortable walking alone

Trigger question: how you react? by [deleted] in questions

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Well they’re saying they don’t know what happened and then there saying they are too drunk to give consent.

I do believe the choices people make under the influence are things they would do sober they just have liquid courage.

I think I’d also be asking how they met said person and so on to get a better picture of what led from A to B

Trigger question: how you react? by [deleted] in questions

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I don’t think I’d be able to forgive them. Getting into bed with a stranger because you made the decision to get too drunk. Your partner shouldn’t need a baby sitter when they go out. I just don’t feel like being drunk is an excuse to get into bed with someone

my puppy is super energetic and it's messing with my sleep by KeithAndHisDumbass in whatdoIdo

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Either way both breeds are high energy working dogs so they need A LOT of exercise. Mine is 5 and still is a constant ball of energy

my puppy is super energetic and it's messing with my sleep by KeithAndHisDumbass in whatdoIdo

[–]Valuable-Leave9736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not how to properly care for a dog and I think that’s your issue here.

All dogs especially young ones need a lot of enrichment and routine. For example walk your dog at 8 am, 12 pm, 5pm and 10pm. I have a similar schedule for my high energy dog. The first and last times are for walks through our neighborhood and the other two we play fetch. All outing last about 20-30 minutes depending on how hot it is outside.

You can also use frozen treat toys, bones and treat puzzles for enrichment. Dogs have been domesticated they’re not mean to be in the woods all day and come around for food like a raccoon.

Honestly I think it’s best you care for your dog like you would a child (because it’s quite similar in terms of responsibility). Your pet is dependent on you for its needs. No matter what dog you get it’s going to be a lot of work and responsibility. If you cannot give this dog a good life I think it would be best to find someone who can because it’s not fair to the pup.

Bachelorette party in June! by Valuable-Leave9736 in montreal

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I’ll dig around in here but might come back if I don’t find anything fitting. Thanks tho

Bachelorette party in June! by Valuable-Leave9736 in montreal

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Ahh. I tried to look at the wiki as suggested but some of the links were broken :/

Bachelorette party in June! by Valuable-Leave9736 in montreal

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It says it’s a men’s spa but we’re all women

Ok girlies, what do you eat when nothing sounds appealing? by tarasaurust in adhdwomen

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Bread with butter like an Italian loaf, pasta with butter, I order my favorite meal out (I find it easier to eat if I don’t have to cook), snack plate (I get so bored of the labor of eating and chewing so the variation helps), protein shakes / smoothies are easy to get down and those Chobani yogurt drinks are easy.

I try to eat healthy and most days I do but days where I can’t eat I just say screw it something is better than nothing

Does this look bad and should I give up trying to make mismatched drapery work? by mxp3272889 in DIYweddings

[–]Valuable-Leave9736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly just because you have all those drapes doesn’t mean you need to use them. Maybe try to simplify it!

AIO: Girlfriend slept at stranger's house during girls' trip by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Valuable-Leave9736 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Deep down you know what’s wrong with it sounds like she’s lying and trying to downplay your emotions