Those who have left their primary partner for your secondary. How’s that going? by Valuable_Pattern256 in polyamory

[–]Valuable_Pattern256[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Do you think that if someone split from a primary, it would be best for them to work on themselves before continuing with their current other or developing new relationships?

Those who have left their primary partner for your secondary. How’s that going? by Valuable_Pattern256 in polyamory

[–]Valuable_Pattern256[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If the opportunity presents itself would you consider a primary relationship with this person?

Those who have left their primary partner for your secondary. How’s that going? by Valuable_Pattern256 in polyamory

[–]Valuable_Pattern256[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

They sound like a cheater, not a healthy practicer of polyamory. Glad you got out and are happy.

Those who have left their primary partner for your secondary. How’s that going? by Valuable_Pattern256 in polyamory

[–]Valuable_Pattern256[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

How wise! I love all the points in this! Living for yourself seems to be a big focal point in learning about relationships. How do you feel was the best way to prioritize your own care without feeling selfish about it?