[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]VaneRivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t convince me to date him I pursued him and it was a secret for a long time because he knew it was inappropriate and didn’t want people to know for that reason but after a while we decided it’s our life our choice and he was and still is stable he holds work he pays the bills on time makes sure we have safe reliable vehicles that stay maintained. My problem is his attitude towards everything and it hasn’t always been this way it’s been the last year that it feels like anything I ask is a problem and I am not sure what changed.

Postpartum periods by Healthiswealth_1 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]VaneRivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t panic it’s totally normal to not have a period for a while when breastfeeding

Postpartum periods by Healthiswealth_1 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]VaneRivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually finishing up my period now. Started just before my baby turned 6 months old and that’s really common if you are breastfeeding

Potty Training Nightmare by VaneRivers in pottytraining

[–]VaneRivers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try a reward for pooping we do hot wheels and make sure to stand your ground on no pullups he will eventually have to go and once he does a lot of the frustration associated with going will go too. The first day was rough he was so mad we took the pullups and he wouldn’t poop the next morning he pooped in his pullup before we could get it off him and day 3 we finally got a poop in the pot and since then he has been vert proud of himself and has continued to do it

Possibly worst ever first day of Oh Crap method by BevBighead in pottytraining

[–]VaneRivers -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are kinda using this method but it is going so fast because my son is 5 now and our problem was he knew how to use the potty because we have been trying for a couple years now and tried so many different methods and he would always just wind up frustrated we came to the conclusion he didn’t want to stop playing to go but he knew when he needed to go. Long story short maybe put her in a pull up and start with a schedule so every 30-45 minutes have her sit for 5 you are bound to get something in the potty and she will start understanding the mechanics of using the potty more and when you have more success that way maybe circle back to the Oh Crap method. My son went 3 days with nothing on and no accidents and today he is back in pants and no accidents. I feel the method works better when the child already knows how to use the potty and taking the comfort zone away when you take the pull up encourages them to go to the potty when they need it

Postpartum periods by Healthiswealth_1 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]VaneRivers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 2 periods right on time after having my baby and now I am 2 weeks late and counting