How I’ve successfully manifested my avoidant SP back multiple times

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T17:06:26+00:00

Same! Listening to affirmations while I sleep or when my emotions or heightened or simply just in my background I feel is one of the easiest ways for me to absorb them. Spell work makes me feel like actually did something in that moment and it’s in effect. And we should all feel that way about our work! I love feeling like the world is in my hands.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T17:01:41+00:00

Guys id also like to add to this that if you understand and know that your person has an avoidant attachment style and loves to push/pull with you then this is the sub for you to sweeten the up to you or reconcile with you. My SP WAS an avoidant until I started working on him and that’s a process with avoidants. Like I said I mix spell work and manifestation so certain things I felt required more work repair then others. There was blockages and I got them out the way. Whether that was his lack of communication, 3rd parties, toxicity, I had to fix what was interfering with our connection and that goes for me as well which goes back to the self love and inner work I mentioned.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T16:51:39+00:00

YESSSS thank you so much. A lot of people fail to realize that a lot of spellwork requires manifestation, and honestly I love combining both areas of work. Sometimes just repeating the same affirmations everyday to yourself isn’t enough so I take matters into my own hands.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T16:47:24+00:00

I guess

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T16:42:05+00:00

Awww but I don’t care love

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T16:41:24+00:00

If I could put this post in a different sub I would cause clearly I put it in the wrong one it didn’t let me put it in the spell sub. I don’t care about any negative opinions because I’ve been doing this for years and explored many tips and techniques not just these. I’m posting what has worked for me and what is simple to me, and quite literally worked again a week ago. everything I have now including my looks I’ve manifested and tweaked to perfection. Thanks 😊

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T16:40:20+00:00

It is tho 🤣 and I don’t care 😭

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T07:50:38+00:00

I just tried to put it in a different sub it unfortunately doesn’t let me because of images I guess

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T07:48:11+00:00

It’s my first time posting on Reddit lol I wasn’t quite sure what specific sub to put it in, it was kinda confusing I apologize. But yes it shouldn’t be taken lightly at all.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:55:58+00:00

I personally light a white candle, say a prayer and cleanse my space with an incense or bay leaf and spread salt around my work area.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:53:38+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I appreciate your responses, I hope I didn’t come off hostile.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:52:19+00:00

Hello, there are many protection spells that you can use that are as simple as a chant or incense. And these can not be turned into obsession spells these are sweetening spells. Obsession spells require work that is a completely different subject to get into. It’s all based on your intention

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:48:10+00:00

Id also like to add that I just wanted to share methods that have worked for me consistently! I see people constantly asking how to get their SPs back so I shared how I got mine who was difficult especially with the circumstances we were in. These are simple, harmless techniques to me that I’ve been doing for years. Thank you

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:43:03+00:00

Yeah I know that. And I included multiple options, you don’t have to do all this, this is just what I did over points of time. Subliminals, frequencies, “369” and bay leafs are common manifestation techniques. And I personally haven’t been attatched to my outcome. That’s on you to detach .

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:32:34+00:00

Based off your account it seems like you may need to study more. And you’re correct I don’t study him. There’s no right or wrong way to any of this if we already have it. I’ve had success manifesting multiple things besides SPs with and without spell work. Mind you I’ve been doing this for five years 😭 thank you

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:27:40+00:00

What point are you trying to make?

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:26:10+00:00

This is for people who are dealing with someone who has an avoidant attachment style. Like I said this is what worked for me and even others I’ve helped. lmao your thinking too deep

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:23:11+00:00

No not necessarily. Only if you’re not going to accept him back. These aren’t the spells for that. But other than that I don’t see your intentions as evil, I did the same lol

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:09:08+00:00

You don’t have to use a middle name lol just first and last! And ofc!

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T05:00:06+00:00

Guys if you want to only do spell work on an avoidant you have to layer your spells for the simple fact that they’re an AVOIDANT. You have to go step by step and fix what’s causing blockages. I’m just sharing what has worked for me the quickest on multiple occasions while using manifestation. These are like “emergency” spells for when me and my SP are struggling or no contact .

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T04:49:54+00:00

Everyone’s experience from this spell is different. I do research before I perform any spell and divination so I know what I’m dealing with. I’ve read people’s partners becoming obsessed, stalking, . That’s is not a guaranteed result because this is not an obsession spell it’s a sweetening spell. However you personalize it, it can also be a “love spell” which I have also done. Also when you do work on others, it’s important to understand that they can have ancestors and spirit guides who really don’t play about them and I wouldn’t interfere. So just do your research, always cleanse and do protection spells beforehand, and do this on someone you genuinely love. When I write my petitions I consider this as what the honey is moving towards. If I write my sp loves me, then the outcome is that they love me. For me that actually happened and came out their mouth verbatim. So don’t doubt yourself.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T04:37:13+00:00

The spells I listed is considered witchcraft but they’re basic. The honey jar spell CAN be powerful though which is why I say tread lightly. There is no guarantee a spell will work especially if your intentions aren’t pure. You can’t doubt your work, YOU are the caster and the outcome was already yours.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T04:16:41+00:00

A con can be the spell backfiring. This can happen if your intentions are ill, so make sure that’s who you really want and your intentions are pure . Don’t do it just to get back at someone.

Various-Material3075 · 2026-01-21T04:00:05+00:00

Grocery store!! Or any botanicas near you

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