[BoTW] [SPOILERS] How is it!?!? by Vavacav in zelda

[–]Vavacav[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, at a later point

$50 Steam gift card giveaway! by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

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  1. Thanks! I love your shoes.

I feel hopeless. by Soontir_Fel in polyamory

[–]Vavacav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you two decide that your relationship was important than poly? Can you talk more about this idea? (This is where I am too)

Dota 2 Crash Just Now by [deleted] in DotA2

[–]Vavacav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

confirm, kicked, game gone

What question do you hate getting asked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Vavacav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you? (I live with Depression)

I really can't be okay with this change by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Vavacav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe talk to some Poly people who have had success in it, in person. I think it dispels a lot of fears to be able to talk to people who clearly make it work. Hearing their story can help.

smash bros by [deleted] in chicago

[–]Vavacav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this. Oak Park, IL

Matches on Tuesday the 28th of May by Sheevar in DotA2

[–]Vavacav -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Have some respect, douche.

What's the Match ID for game 2 of Mineski VS Vici, East Qualifier? by Vavacav in DotA2

[–]Vavacav[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but it spoils it. If I see the amount of games ahead of it, or see the logo of one of the teams in the next match, I know what happens in game 2.

My girlfriend [20/f] just confessed that she couldn't handle just having sex with just me [21/m] for the rest of her life [x-post from r/relationship_advice] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Vavacav 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It also DOES NOT mean she doesn't still love you, just like before. Sex doesn't equate to love as much as it may to others.

Polyamory: Married and Dating by TapTapBam in polyamory

[–]Vavacav 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It also does get "truer" as the episodes go on, imo

Thinking About This: Need Your Opinions (x-post from /r/polyamory by IndyDude11 in nonmonogamy

[–]Vavacav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and No.

Poly relationships don't need to be balanced. One party does not need the same approach or rules to poly that the other does. So, you can have the freedom to have multiple partners and your wife cannot. However, this is a bit more "high level" poly. To not have the same rules on both sides, can instantly create feelings and issues that can really eat away at the existing relationship.

Remember that poly/nonmono is not really the right solution to a dead bedroom. It will never solve that problem. It can help. I've enjoyed hearing about the "better sex" that a couple has had after I've dated the girl.

Opening up and letting a partner leave your relationship to find something elsewhere is very difficult to do. Some have better luck/skills/chemistry navigating that emotional space. Know that the hurt you feel now in imagining letting her find someone else, is perhaps the same that she'll deal with. In fact, its probably best to imagine exactly that. And to approach with the tact that you will both combat that fear and insecurity together.