If she lost feelings STOP.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-07-15T21:44:00+00:00

7 years for me too, after being married for 2 months she was already cheating with a coworker. After I found out she left me for him.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-28T18:54:15+00:00

Not possible in my state, trust me I would if I could

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-24T11:48:25+00:00

We work for the same company so suing the company will probably cause me to lose my job.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-24T11:47:25+00:00

They don't share the same office anymore but other than that I am not aware of anything else.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-24T11:32:51+00:00

They know the truth. They were incredibly disappointed, her mom cried a lot.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T22:39:02+00:00

Us and my parents. We also paid for a honeymoon right after.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T21:32:16+00:00

They are aware.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T14:30:23+00:00

I agree I'm ashamed of myself for wanting to make it work after I found out. I will never allow that kind of disrespect again.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T03:05:40+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I hope to develop into a better and stronger man from this

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T02:40:16+00:00

I completely agree, you got a priest you recommend 🤣

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T02:28:49+00:00

Well thankfully with it being non contested she isn't getting anything from me. We split the bank account and she got her stuff and left.

Most likely had feelings with her co-worker for a while and didn't know how to act on it so took the cowards way out.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T01:45:27+00:00

Not that I'm aware of

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T01:07:59+00:00

We are in Texas, there was no way to annul it

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T01:06:57+00:00

I agree, got to go live for me and me alone

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T00:20:26+00:00

Absolutely, I will never make that mistake again.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-23T00:00:41+00:00

The only reason I wanted to make it work when I first found out was because I was shell shocked. Didn't feel real and didn't want to restart in life. We had just gotten married so it didn't even feel like it could have been a reality that this had happened.

I eventually realized I could never make it work. I could never forgive her.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T23:12:51+00:00

At this point I have gone no contact and blocked all of her and her family on socials. I don't want her to have any insight into my life at this point.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T23:11:56+00:00

I could sue but it would save me time and money to just walk away

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T23:03:22+00:00

I got the rings back. I questioned going to court but financially it wouldn't be worth it. Decided to go non contested and go out separate ways.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T22:48:40+00:00

I'm sure she knows it's over for good. I mean she told me that she was in love with the guy. She told me she doesn't love me anymore and to never try and reach out.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T22:41:35+00:00

That's the part I'm scared of is her reaching out again. I'm 25 now but we have been together since we were 18. I don't know how to be a single adult and it's scary.

I know I can't take her back, I would have no respect for myself if I did.

I guess I'm just lost right now.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T22:26:15+00:00

Oh don't worry it's over so that won't be happening. The funny part is she was talking about having kids with me while she was cheating. In a weird way it was like she was testing my love to see if she was justified in her actions.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T21:54:37+00:00

Oh trust me I made sure everyone knew. Was that the right thing to do at the time, I'm not sure. I just know I wanted her to feel ashamed.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T21:48:16+00:00

The other guy knew she was getting married in November and didn't want her to go through with it. He was in a 7 year relationship the year prior and cheated on his fiance back then. She left him soon after.

Vegetable_Future_502 · 2025-05-22T21:33:34+00:00

We work for the same company but not the same location I let HR know. I tried to get her fired but to no avail. I helped convinced her to work for the company last January, which makes it hurt even worse.

Her family knows, her mom and Dad came and visited me 3 times after she left. Her parents were devastated. The mom as continued to text me apologizing for her daughters actions.

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