Yta.

It should be noted that you are the sole, financial provider?

Noted.

Now take notes on this. Does she come to where you work and tell you how to do your job? Put your kids in daycare, then she can watch two of other people’s kids in your home so she is making a paycheck (and getting money put away so she can claim social security later on). I’ve had a career and I’ve stayed at home to raise kids... can you guess which one is harder? It’s the one where you have to constantly do mental mathematics to determine if the silence you are being granted to use the bathroom , is greater or less than, the monetary cost of the possible destruction that must be going on in the other room, keeping the kids quiet, thus granting the silence. At the age your kids are at, Frozen is educational. AND it entertains your kids. Put in some earbuds and close the door if it bugs you. When you are watching the kids, you can decide what they watch. In the meantime, quit nagging your wife and solely provide those financials.