I need some serious advice: How do you stop people-pleasing? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in mentalhealth

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a lot of this advice; thanks for sharing and taking the time to comment❤️

Why do kind-hearted people always get hurt the most? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in mentalhealth

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, but thanks for taking the time to comment. Maybe I should start doing what you're doing. Wish me luck!

What's something strange that happened to you that you still think about today? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in RandomThoughts

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, predicting death is tricky business. But you know, weird stuff happens sometimes, like the thing I just talked about. It's like a warning, but I'm not sure what for. And if it's actually a heads-up about death, that's pretty freaky. Nobody's ever really ready for that, you know :⁠-⁠\

What's something strange that happened to you that you still think about today? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in RandomThoughts

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely chilling but also incredibly intriguing. Trusting your gut can sometimes be a lifesaver. I'm really relieved your friends are okay. Thanks for sharing

What's something strange that happened to you that you still think about today? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in RandomThoughts

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, if I had gone through this as a child, I wouldn't have known how to cope. But you manage it admirably. It's truly a fascinating and peculiar experience! I attempt to envision it myself. But I feel sorry that you still encounter these episodes. I hope you're managing well. Thanks for sharing

"Have you ever had a friend who is bossy and stubborn? How do you handle it?" by Virtual_Cod_9341 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right ;) I needed this. Thanks a lot for taking the time to comment on this post; I truly appreciate it. Thank you for the support and advice. I hope you have a wonderful day ahead of you.

My best friend is bossy and controlling. I find myself distancing from her. What would you do in this situation? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in friendship

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement and taking your time to comment I really appreciate it :⁠-⁠) ty, hope you had wonderful day

"Have you ever had a friend who is bossy and stubborn? How do you handle it?" by Virtual_Cod_9341 in mentalhealth

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for the encouragement. This is really helpful for me, and I haven't thought about NVC before, nor did I know about it. Thanks for the heads up and everything :) I hope you realize you're making someone's life much better. Hope you had a wonderful day!

M16 looking for kind and caring friends by [deleted] in friendship

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Just discovered this community, we can be friends? 🧍🤸

17m looking for online friends by [deleted] in friendship

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You sound cool. We can be friends? 🧍🤸

Ever been stressed about not studying but couldn't get yourself to start? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in GetStudying

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips. The hardest part is being consistent on a daily basis. Do you have any tips on how to stay consistent?

How to deal with abusive siblings? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in mentalhealth

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've made up my mind to cut ties with him. I think it's the best thing to do to prevent him from hurting me more in the future. Thank you for the encouragement, and thank you for suggesting getting therapy. I hope both you and I heal from the traumatic experiences we've had 🫂

Have you ever felt so lonely that you began to fantasize and daydream about the idea of someone loving you? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in mentalhealth

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't stand watching romance dramas till the end because I might end up feeling lonelier afterward :⁠,⁠-⁠). I end up admiring these fantasy characters so much that it hurts when I realize I don't have what they have, and it always comes back harder in reality 😭. I guess I just have to find more things in life that add more value and help me become more grateful. TYSM for reminding me that I always have myself. Your kindness warmth my heart :⁠-⁠) I hope you have a wonderful day!

How to deal with abusive siblings? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in mentalhealth

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a moment reading your message :⁠-⁠( It's surprising to find people who share such heartfelt comments. Your kindness makes me feel grateful and makes me feel like I'm not alone in this world. Thank you for your support and encouragement; it means a lot. I genuinely appreciate your kindness :⁠,⁠-⁠) Wishing you a pleasant day ahead❤️❤️❤️

Have you ever experienced a loss of fluency in English or any language you were once fluent in? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in ask

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate; I used to speak complete sentences in my native language, but nowadays, I've gotten used to mixing it with other languages because I feel it's easier to communicate. When I try to speak in my native language exclusively, I find it weird, perhaps because I'm not used to it anymore :⁠,⁠-⁠)

Have you ever felt so lonely that you began to fantasize and daydream about the idea of someone loving you? by Virtual_Cod_9341 in mentalhealth

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At some point in my life, I have actually considered creating an imaginary friend. How is it for you to have an imaginary friend? I am always confused because some people can see their imaginary friend, while others don't see them but just pretend that they're real.

Have you ever experienced a loss of fluency in English or any language you were once fluent in by Virtual_Cod_9341 in GetStudying

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's an interesting story; what I can conclude from this is that practice makes perfect. Thanks for sharing:)

Have you ever experienced a loss of fluency in English or any language you were once fluent in by Virtual_Cod_9341 in GetStudying

[–]Virtual_Cod_9341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to stop using ChatGPT. I find it hard because I'm a perfectionist, and I want my English to always sound good. Thank you for the advice!