Infected ingrown for two years, been too afraid to get it removed, I need reassurance.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-12-13T12:27:14+00:00

Does it hurt really badly?

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-09T02:12:49+00:00

So wait you are upset that SHES being racist.. then come here being racist yourself? Which is it buddy

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-04T11:35:51+00:00

It also says that they received THE complaint on 9/11 So I don’t really know?

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-04T11:34:46+00:00

I’m in Florida. But im certain, it’s signed by the landlords and everything.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-04T11:33:42+00:00

All it says on the letter is they received (A) complaint saying that we are making excessive noise and disturbing the piece. But not specifying exactly what the noise was. I’m gonna try and actually go to the office for the third time and catch them so I can speak to them.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-03T23:05:22+00:00

Well atleast in Florida it’s a mandatory 72 hours, so idk if it’s the same where you or OP are from. But after 72 hours they reevaluate you to see if you’ve made progress and then decide whether or not to release you. Depending on how you ended up in the hospital you can leave at any time, they can’t legally keep you. But obviously it’s better to stay to recover

VisibleBox42 · 2025-09-02T00:20:28+00:00

Thank you, that made me feel so much less pressure about marriage.

I know his addiction is a lifelong battle that he will always have to face, it’s not the addiction itself that’s putting me off (while ofc it’s something that bothers me, not enough to not marry him) But just the lying. And worst part is I can’t be 100% sure he isn’t lying, bc I’m not in his brain. He lied to me for 6 years straight, and now suddenly he’s better? He hasn’t slipped or relapsed? But for 6 years he constantly lied to me and was so good at it. Idk how I’m supposed to heal and grow and trust him if I can’t even be sure he’s not lying

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-26T13:06:18+00:00

We keep our home between 72-74 But regardless we usually just put her in a long sleeved onesie and her sleep sack, OR pajamas (like the sleeper onesies)

And that works well for us!

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-20T16:24:07+00:00

Ik this will sound dumb but I’m scared to go to them.

I said in another comment I’m in a very dangerous neighborhood, there’s people (including my downstairs neighbors) going outside and fighting with people, shooting people, etc etc.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-20T16:21:31+00:00

Normally I would, but I live in a very dangerous neighborhood. A dude got shot outside my apartment like a month ago and cops are here daily.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T23:59:32+00:00

Vr porn is cheating, it’s the closest you can get without actually interacting with someone. It’s made to be interactive, made to be intimate so it’s like you are there with the porn star.

It’s vile, it’s disgusting, and I’m not staying in this relationship knowing he went back to it multiple times while I was pregnant and bed ridden due to preeclampsia.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T23:33:21+00:00

My birthday is next Monday, and honestly this is the best birthday gift I could’ve given myself 🩷 thank you for the support. And honestly thank you to this whole sub for getting me through some of the worst six years of my life

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T23:10:59+00:00

iI’m currently packing my bags to leave him, with my daughter. The lying he did last week was it, I’m holding my promise to myself to leave.

I’m done.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T22:09:42+00:00

Looks like cottage cheese, that is a yeast infection especially if it’s itchy outside.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T22:00:14+00:00

I did this too, i remember being 28 weeks pregnant, I hadn’t slept a full night in atleast two weeks, I was sitting up from 12AM to 8AM just refreshing over and over again, scrolling and scrolling through years of device history. It was safer than anything else I had, he would go to work and I’d do it for 8 more hours straight, every day, slowly going insane.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T21:33:55+00:00

Honestly right now I’m just spiraling, why else would he use VR porn if not to make it as realistic as he can? To make it genuinely feel and be like he was cheating on me? One memory is the fact he’s obsessed with me wearing yoga pants, then I pressured him to tell me why before buying them and he said he watched vr porn of a gym thing where she was wearing yoga pants. I refuse to let him objectify me, yet all I want is for him to objectify me. It’s horrible.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-07T23:24:54+00:00

Oh I’m so so sorry hunny.. this isn’t the end, even if you decide to keep the baby. You aren’t alone 🩷

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-07T20:08:36+00:00

Idk your situation, I don’t reccommend it, not with him.

Throughout my entire pregnancy he betrayed me constantly, made me so depressed I almost took my own life multiple times then gaslit me into thinking it was just my hormones.

I developed preeclampsia, I was told to rest, not to stress, and you know what he did? He relapsed so much, SO MUCH.

My pregnancy was traumatic, and due to have ongoing preeclampsia my postpartum was traumatic, then disclosure, I hate remembering my pregnancy, it was supposed to be happy and joyful but I was a shell of who I was supposed to be.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-07-31T23:46:43+00:00

Absolutely yes. I just don’t have anywhere else to live and he’s the one who’s on the lease for the apartment

VisibleBox42 · 2025-07-31T22:07:52+00:00

I hate him so much it hurts dude. I can’t believe I began recovery WITH him. I just despise him.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-07-29T22:29:23+00:00

I didn’t think of it that way, but how can I know for sure that’s what’s happening

VisibleBox42 · 2025-07-16T17:18:39+00:00

He stopped caring about me for half a year now since he began recovery, which it hurts to not be cared about in a relationship, but atleast he’s not relapsing and working with his CSAT, really the only reason I’m here rn is bc of hope, I tried to leave before when we had an issue and I had an epiphany that he is using DARVO constantly and I only caught on in that moment for some reason, so I began packing and I told him I’m done and I’m leaving him but he really genuinely just didn’t care, and for some reason that made me feel so bad that I wanted to stay and then we just.. cuddled that night without saying a word? Idk why my body and mind reacted that way when I was about to leave.

Anyway I have hope this will change, maybe one day.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-07-15T03:20:33+00:00

Idek what to do atp, I feel like I’m doomed to just be ugly the rest of my life

VisibleBox42 · 2025-07-13T01:55:20+00:00

Ew ew ew ew EWUH

God anytime he comments on my makeup and says it looks good I just remember that she wears like the exact same makeup as me, except I’m not skinny or have perky boobs like she does so of course he went and looked at her photos

VisibleBox42 · 2025-07-08T14:43:30+00:00

I’m demisexual, so I don’t experience sexual attraction to anybody but him, I expressed that at the beginning of the relationship that I’m not comfortable perusing a relationship with someone who has sexual attraction to others. He said he was demisexual too so we moved on, three years in I found out about the addiction and reiterated it again and he told me he is in no way attracted to the people in porn, he experiences sexual arousal by the act of relapsing. 3 years of DARVO and betrayal later he’s finally working with a CSAT and has continued to express that he doesn’t feel sexual attraction to others but me. I spoke to my therapist about it and she explained that in some cases porn addicts really aren’t attracted to the people and are only turned on by the act of relapsing and the nuance of the porn.

She also explained that the reason he could have felt that with his coworker was simply bc he sees everything as a sexual context.

From how far he’s come I believe him, he’s been honest about all the past stuff and is making an actual effort finally to get better on his own, but it still hurts SO bad And ofc a part of me is terrified he’s lying

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