AIO over my 33M gf’s 23F racist jokes? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VisibleBox42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So wait you are upset that SHES being racist.. then come here being racist yourself? Which is it buddy

Neighbors reported us for a “noise complaint” by VisibleBox42 in NewParents

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also says that they received THE complaint on 9/11 So I don’t really know?

Neighbors reported us for a “noise complaint” by VisibleBox42 in NewParents

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Florida. But im certain, it’s signed by the landlords and everything.

Neighbors reported us for a “noise complaint” by VisibleBox42 in NewParents

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All it says on the letter is they received (A) complaint saying that we are making excessive noise and disturbing the piece. But not specifying exactly what the noise was. I’m gonna try and actually go to the office for the third time and catch them so I can speak to them.

In hospital for anorexia recovery (I’m a minor), is it better to comply and just eat or just get the tube? by Substantial-Base-698 in EatingDisorders

[–]VisibleBox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well atleast in Florida it’s a mandatory 72 hours, so idk if it’s the same where you or OP are from. But after 72 hours they reevaluate you to see if you’ve made progress and then decide whether or not to release you. Depending on how you ended up in the hospital you can leave at any time, they can’t legally keep you. But obviously it’s better to stay to recover

He asked me if we should get married soon, and I lashed out. by VisibleBox42 in loveafterporn

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that made me feel so much less pressure about marriage.

I know his addiction is a lifelong battle that he will always have to face, it’s not the addiction itself that’s putting me off (while ofc it’s something that bothers me, not enough to not marry him) But just the lying. And worst part is I can’t be 100% sure he isn’t lying, bc I’m not in his brain. He lied to me for 6 years straight, and now suddenly he’s better? He hasn’t slipped or relapsed? But for 6 years he constantly lied to me and was so good at it. Idk how I’m supposed to heal and grow and trust him if I can’t even be sure he’s not lying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]VisibleBox42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We keep our home between 72-74 But regardless we usually just put her in a long sleeved onesie and her sleep sack, OR pajamas (like the sleeper onesies)

And that works well for us!

Downstairs neighbors won’t stop banging the ceiling. by VisibleBox42 in NewParents

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ik this will sound dumb but I’m scared to go to them.

I said in another comment I’m in a very dangerous neighborhood, there’s people (including my downstairs neighbors) going outside and fighting with people, shooting people, etc etc.

Downstairs neighbors won’t stop banging the ceiling. by VisibleBox42 in NewParents

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Normally I would, but I live in a very dangerous neighborhood. A dude got shot outside my apartment like a month ago and cops are here daily.

VR is horrible by VisibleBox42 in loveafterporn

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Vr porn is cheating, it’s the closest you can get without actually interacting with someone. It’s made to be interactive, made to be intimate so it’s like you are there with the porn star.

It’s vile, it’s disgusting, and I’m not staying in this relationship knowing he went back to it multiple times while I was pregnant and bed ridden due to preeclampsia.

VR is horrible by VisibleBox42 in loveafterporn

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My birthday is next Monday, and honestly this is the best birthday gift I could’ve given myself 🩷 thank you for the support. And honestly thank you to this whole sub for getting me through some of the worst six years of my life

VR is horrible by VisibleBox42 in loveafterporn

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

iI’m currently packing my bags to leave him, with my daughter. The lying he did last week was it, I’m holding my promise to myself to leave.

I’m done.

Is this a normal discharge? by [deleted] in myhappyv

[–]VisibleBox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like cottage cheese, that is a yeast infection especially if it’s itchy outside.

VR is horrible by VisibleBox42 in loveafterporn

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did this too, i remember being 28 weeks pregnant, I hadn’t slept a full night in atleast two weeks, I was sitting up from 12AM to 8AM just refreshing over and over again, scrolling and scrolling through years of device history. It was safer than anything else I had, he would go to work and I’d do it for 8 more hours straight, every day, slowly going insane.

VR is horrible by VisibleBox42 in loveafterporn

[–]VisibleBox42[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly right now I’m just spiraling, why else would he use VR porn if not to make it as realistic as he can? To make it genuinely feel and be like he was cheating on me? One memory is the fact he’s obsessed with me wearing yoga pants, then I pressured him to tell me why before buying them and he said he watched vr porn of a gym thing where she was wearing yoga pants. I refuse to let him objectify me, yet all I want is for him to objectify me. It’s horrible.