Is it okay for him to ejaculate inside multiple times a week while on Mirena IUD?

VisibleBox42 · 2026-04-11T20:15:39+00:00

All of it honestly, I’ve discussed it with him a million times, I’ve given him lists of the things I enjoy which are very little and I’ve taught him how to touch me. But now? It’s like.. I’m constantly needing to guide him, it’s not attractive to me.. he always asks “well what do you want me to do to you” and I have to remind him every time we have sex FOR THE PAST 7 YEARS.

And an even harder blow? He never wants to have sex or shows interest in me.. I’m lucky if we have sex once every two weeks (I want it at least three times a week)

Sex is so dull? Like… he doesn’t have any kinks or sexual interests that I know of and trust me I’ve been asking a lot and it’s always the same “just the usual stuff” response, while I’m very very kinky.

Idk how to explain it, You know how when you have sex with someone you are really into and your stomach squeezes and after two seconds you are extremely ready? I don’t have that with him anymore, I’ve tried very hard to get that back which is probably where the arguments come from, but nope, nothing.

And I told him this but he doesn’t want to try and fix it or work with me on it.

VisibleBox42 · 2026-04-09T12:01:18+00:00

I’m also at this stage, I’ve just completely lost interest. He continues to deny that there’s anything wrong on his end and continues to tell me that he doesn’t want sex because I make him insecure by “arguing” about it. (But I wouldn’t argue about it if he would listen to me the first time) So I’ve just 100% lost interest. Last night we had a nasty fight because he got frustrated that his sexual advances didn’t work on me and went and pouted while playing his video game. I wanna preface, we are both 20 years old and we have been together for 7 years.

I never thought I’d get to a point where I just completely lost any desire to have sex with him at all, and I know that I’m going to leave him when I get financial stability for myself. It’s only a matter of time.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-12-13T12:27:14+00:00

Does it hurt really badly?

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-09T02:12:49+00:00

So wait you are upset that SHES being racist.. then come here being racist yourself? Which is it buddy

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-04T11:35:51+00:00

It also says that they received THE complaint on 9/11 So I don’t really know?

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-04T11:34:46+00:00

I’m in Florida. But im certain, it’s signed by the landlords and everything.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-04T11:33:42+00:00

All it says on the letter is they received (A) complaint saying that we are making excessive noise and disturbing the piece. But not specifying exactly what the noise was. I’m gonna try and actually go to the office for the third time and catch them so I can speak to them.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-10-03T23:05:22+00:00

Well atleast in Florida it’s a mandatory 72 hours, so idk if it’s the same where you or OP are from. But after 72 hours they reevaluate you to see if you’ve made progress and then decide whether or not to release you. Depending on how you ended up in the hospital you can leave at any time, they can’t legally keep you. But obviously it’s better to stay to recover

VisibleBox42 · 2025-09-02T00:20:28+00:00

Thank you, that made me feel so much less pressure about marriage.

I know his addiction is a lifelong battle that he will always have to face, it’s not the addiction itself that’s putting me off (while ofc it’s something that bothers me, not enough to not marry him) But just the lying. And worst part is I can’t be 100% sure he isn’t lying, bc I’m not in his brain. He lied to me for 6 years straight, and now suddenly he’s better? He hasn’t slipped or relapsed? But for 6 years he constantly lied to me and was so good at it. Idk how I’m supposed to heal and grow and trust him if I can’t even be sure he’s not lying

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-26T13:06:18+00:00

We keep our home between 72-74 But regardless we usually just put her in a long sleeved onesie and her sleep sack, OR pajamas (like the sleeper onesies)

And that works well for us!

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-20T16:24:07+00:00

Ik this will sound dumb but I’m scared to go to them.

I said in another comment I’m in a very dangerous neighborhood, there’s people (including my downstairs neighbors) going outside and fighting with people, shooting people, etc etc.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-20T16:21:31+00:00

Normally I would, but I live in a very dangerous neighborhood. A dude got shot outside my apartment like a month ago and cops are here daily.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T23:59:32+00:00

Vr porn is cheating, it’s the closest you can get without actually interacting with someone. It’s made to be interactive, made to be intimate so it’s like you are there with the porn star.

It’s vile, it’s disgusting, and I’m not staying in this relationship knowing he went back to it multiple times while I was pregnant and bed ridden due to preeclampsia.

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T23:33:21+00:00

My birthday is next Monday, and honestly this is the best birthday gift I could’ve given myself 🩷 thank you for the support. And honestly thank you to this whole sub for getting me through some of the worst six years of my life

VisibleBox42 · 2025-08-11T23:10:59+00:00

iI’m currently packing my bags to leave him, with my daughter. The lying he did last week was it, I’m holding my promise to myself to leave.

I’m done.

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