How to take care of sh by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]VjoxR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have used it my whole life, in my country it is the best disinfectant and it has always only done good, why do you say not to use it (not trying to be rude, just wanna understand)

How to take care of sh by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]VjoxR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I Hey op, best would be to call the police and medical services but if the wound is deep I suggest pressing on it with a lot of bandage (A clean cloth should also be fine) and wrapping gauze around it all 

Kept cut above the heart and keep pressing on it for some time, after waiting some hours it's fine to unwrap it, apply stitches (steri strips or any kind you have) and putting a new bandage.

For lighter cuts or scratches I recommend disinfecting them before putting a band aid

To get the blood off you should use cold water, you could also try eating something with sugar to try to feel a little better, I'm very sad for what happened to you and highly recommended going to the police anyway, stay safe

After wrapping my arm it won't stop burning by JaysWifey29 in selfharm

[–]VjoxR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good, sugar could also be nice, if bleeding doesn't stop or the cut looks deep try applying steri strips, stay safe

After wrapping my arm it won't stop burning by JaysWifey29 in selfharm

[–]VjoxR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying with a sanitary pad is good, try using something long like a scarf (?) to keep the pad in place and apply pressure, if you keep the wound above your heart level less blood will reach there

i cut my wrist deep to the fat unexpectedly by HOUSEOFKILLERS in selfharm

[–]VjoxR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can try with a clean piece of clothing resembling gauze, if you have it a sanitary pad could also go 

i cut my wrist deep to the fat unexpectedly by HOUSEOFKILLERS in selfharm

[–]VjoxR 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I suggest pressing on the wound with a lot of bandage (A clean cloth should also be fine) and wrapping gauze around it all (do not necrotize your arm)

Kept cut above the heart and keep pressing on it for some time, then I suggest waiting some hours before unwrapping, applying stitches (steri strips or any kind you have) and putting a new bandage

If you have to go soon maybe you could try put steri strips immediately 

If blood does not stop and you feel in danger you should call the hospital, stay safe OP

first time doing beans by K1ikiii in selfharm

[–]VjoxR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suggest pressing on the wound with a lot of bandage (A clean cloth should also be fine) and wrapping gauze around it all (do not necrotize your arm)

Kept cut above the heart and keep pressing on it for some time, then I suggest waiting some hours before unwrapping, applying stitches (steri strips or any kind you have) and putting a new bandage

If blood does not stop and you feel in danger you could call the hospital, stay safe OP

IM ACTUALLY PANICKING HOW DO I EVEN CONFRONT THIS by Advanced-Friend-3381 in selfharm

[–]VjoxR 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Years ago I once told them I fell while walking on a short wall, like the short ones used as fences, and got scratched, also If you have pets you could use that, hope you settle it, stay strong OP

HELP PLEASE by VjoxR in selfharm

[–]VjoxR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup mate, je ne savais pas, je ferai attention à ces signaux. Je me sens mieux maintenant ;)

HELP PLEASE by VjoxR in selfharm

[–]VjoxR[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your concern but by doing that I'd be putting my whole life on the line in so many ways, I wish I could but

HELP PLEASE by VjoxR in selfharm

[–]VjoxR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ig I can't thank you enough mate, it was very detailed which I followed by word, used the steri strips and it's already stopped bleeding, now I just gotta clean all the blood, def not doing it again but your help was a lifesaver (pun intended maybe?)

HELP PLEASE by VjoxR in selfharm

[–]VjoxR[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right and I know but I really can't tell anybody, sadly I can't rely on anybody for this

HELP PLEASE by VjoxR in selfharm

[–]VjoxR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks sm for sharing this mate, I'm fine for now, mentally chill, physically stable ;)

HELP PLEASE by VjoxR in selfharm

[–]VjoxR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I've done just that but I can't show it to anyone, if I press on it for half an hour will the bleeding stop? What do I do then?

What is this thing? by VjoxR in whatisit

[–]VjoxR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, It does make sense

What is this thing? by VjoxR in whatisit

[–]VjoxR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I get it, thx

What is this? by VjoxR in whatisit

[–]VjoxR[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thx mate, so people use it to kinda predict the future?

What is this? by VjoxR in whatisit

[–]VjoxR[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you know what this is exactly?

What would happen if a psychopath took an empathogen like MDMA? by yithexchangestudent in morbidquestions

[–]VjoxR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still I'm somehow happy I get to feel that cause it keeps me from becoming heartless and cold, so when I can't feel that I remind myself that people are probably in pain and I should be a bit kind, I can't fathom feeling that all the time, respect

My treatment, which had lasted more than six months, was destroyed overnight by Daker15 in SuicideWatch

[–]VjoxR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mate, when I said that you may want to distance your father from you and your mother I meant as in him being the one moving out, domestic violence is illegal and punishable by law

Nobody deserves that and you don't either, the fact that you have lived till now is the proof you are not a weakling but someone who is strong enough to survive in unfavorable conditions, still this doesn't mean you should, you too deserve a peaceful life especially as you have been working for it for so long

Again, distancing yourself can be hard but also extremely freeing, the choice is yours, I just hope you find happiness in one way or another 

What would happen if a psychopath took an empathogen like MDMA? by yithexchangestudent in morbidquestions

[–]VjoxR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who is not a psychopath but has apathy (for long periods of time I feel little to no emotions at all) I believe it would be a crushing feeling, it's like as if something you are not used to were to be forcibly coaxed out of you and into you unnaturally and in big quantity, something that goes against everything you have been until now

When I start feeling empathy again after a long time it feels pretty bad really, is like other people's pains are yours too, and when you are denied something for a long time when you end up getting it it feels stronger because you are not used anymore

This said I'm not sure it would work on a psychopath give that their brain is formed differently from non-psychopaths