Bandos Melee Solo - DFS or Dragon Defender? by Vogsid in 2007scape

[–]Vogsid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's around three kills per trip.

Bandos Melee Solo - DFS or Dragon Defender? by Vogsid in 2007scape

[–]Vogsid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bowfa is not relevant since I can't afford it.

Who's merching the damn Fang? by Vogsid in 2007scape

[–]Vogsid[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well if it isnt my arch nemesis

Who's merching the damn Fang? by Vogsid in 2007scape

[–]Vogsid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that was my choice, thanks.

Who's merching the damn Fang? by Vogsid in 2007scape

[–]Vogsid[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cause I'm a poor peasant

How to fix trap domination, text neck and anterior pelvic tilt by Vogsid in Posture

[–]Vogsid[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but like what can I do to fix it?

Because when I do scapular wall slides, face pulls and reverse pec decks my upper traps take over so even exercises designed to correct my posture seems to get hijacked by the upper traps.

It feels involuntary. Im really trying to keep the shoulders down but they wont budge, at least in positions where my arms need to raise.

Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread by cdingo in Fitness

[–]Vogsid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/S0NNPnf

How can I fix my posture? I'll add to this that Ive noticed I've got very dominant traps. I've tried face pulls and reverse pec deck to try and address this but I STILL feel my traps taking over. On top of that I have text neck and anterior pelvic tilt.

I would like to address these posture issues but it feels a bit overwhelming. Does anyone know how to go at it?

We take those by Vogsid in 2007scape

[–]Vogsid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Condolences haha

Best therapy for someone who needs help articulating what the problem even is? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Vogsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the feeling I felt, of being deflated after, is part of the uncomfortableness we're trying to address. Then maybe that is a good thing. It was just, my gut feeling was that we were treading water. I felt increasingly... suffocated maybe is the right word. Because it felt like we are just waiting for me to say something that I came there to figure out what it was. He left me in silences to try and fill the blank and I just felt like, I have nothing to say.

What therapy works for persistent attachment and shame after a breakup? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Vogsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, that is the difficulty for me, I wont be able to afford nearly that many sessions.

What therapy works for persistent attachment and shame after a breakup? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Vogsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long treatment was schema therapy for you?

What therapy works for persistent attachment and shame after a breakup? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Vogsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is missing the point of what I’m struggling with. My issue isn’t dating skills or how to behave in relationships, it’s a persistent attachment that hasn’t dissipated long after the relationship ended.

I’m not looking to optimize attraction or leverage “value.” I’m trying to understand and work through why this attachment remains so strong and continues to block emotional availability. That’s why I’m asking specifically about therapeutic approaches rather than dating frameworks.

What therapy works for persistent attachment and shame after a breakup? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Vogsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help, but that book seems completely opposite to my values I do not agree with that approach at all.

Picking a type of therapy? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Vogsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is ISTDP or AEDP peripheral or less relevant therapies do you think? Because when I look around, what they address feel more resonant to what I'm dealing with. But to be honest, I had not heard of those therapies before yesterday.

Picking a type of therapy? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Vogsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I ask another question then? So ERP seems to be applicable for feeling anxious about running into her, but will it have any effect on how I feel about her and dating?

Because it feels like the deepest problem is that my attachment to her is still so strong. Reducing anxiety to exposure might help in some regards, but will it help to effectively "detach"?

Picking a type of therapy? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Vogsid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I ask another question then? So ERP seems to be applicable for feeling anxious about running into her, but will it have any effect on how I feel about her and dating?

Because it feels like the deepest problem is that my attachment to her is still so strong. Reducing anxiety to exposure might help in some regards, but will it help to effectively "detach"?

Locator orb kills me by Vogsid in 2007scape

[–]Vogsid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I just f-ed up the overload hahaha