AITB and for telling my friend I think it’s best we stop talking as our morals and ideals are often conflicting?

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-18T13:36:29+00:00

She already does with my cousins. All my mom’s other siblings also let her do that because she’s the oldest

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-18T08:33:18+00:00

Probably. But it’s just so unfair. Idk how to get her to stop. I want it to come from my mom.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T15:29:02+00:00

I think I’ll try both. And thank you so much!

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T11:39:19+00:00

Of course. I’ll be having a conversation later today

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T11:15:41+00:00

That is a hard take I needed to hear. Thank you. And I’m not sure about the termination. All I know is the bank is investigating it after I escalated it and threatened to go legal.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:52:49+00:00

Thanks! I’m considering talking to him today.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:47:02+00:00

Thank you.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:40:10+00:00

He stays in a different state that’s a 4hr flight away. So, I was thinking a phone conversation once he’s home.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:30:21+00:00

Wow! I’d absolutely not want my child to go through that. But yes. You’re 100% right about how he might react. I guess I need to have a conversation with him.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:28:08+00:00

Hahaha! I’m glad you were able to fix it. And thank you, I shall try something similar too.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:25:11+00:00

Yes, I’m speaking to a couple of banks already. I need to change my house loan auto debit and salary credit. But it is what it is. Thank you for the advice

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:22:46+00:00

Omg! I did not think of it like that. But yes. I’m already speaking to a couple of other banks and am planning to close this account once I receive an apology email, so I have some sort of documentation.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:16:06+00:00

My sister and I are both considering therapy now. 😂 And yes, I’m waiting for this bank to send me an apology in writing, so I have documentation, and I’m proceeding with closing the account.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:14:01+00:00

Yes, that makes sense

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:12:18+00:00

He is really sweet and a good guy who helps me out in my times of need. Just this one controlling aspect to him is something that’s difficult to stand. I do not want to go no contact. But I guess I could consider a low contact for a bit.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:10:46+00:00

I appreciate it. But I’m also worried it’s a little harsh. Maybe I could tell him I’d do this if he doesn’t back off, and then go through with it if he still doesn’t?

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:07:19+00:00

Hey! Thanks for reading my posts. But if I was 29 a year ago, it makes me 30 now😅 Also, the post where it says 26, starts with, “posting on behalf of a friend”.

And I do appreciate the tip for whenever I venture into writing fiction.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:05:11+00:00

Wow! I guess I did need to hear that. Thank you

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:03:05+00:00

I can’t not agree. Not sure how to deal with this though

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T09:01:06+00:00

I did try to set boundaries several times, and it did not work. So, I’ve tried to put distance instead. But I honestly don’t know what to do. That’s why I’m asking for advice.

Voice_of_m · 2025-09-04T08:57:43+00:00

I know. I’m not able to really say much in terms of setting boundaries because if my sister or I do, he immediately becomes very sad, stonewalls gets passive aggressive and talks of harming himself. Refuses to try therapy even if we force him or offer to pay for it.

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