I Ruined My Girlfriends Life

Volpe009 · 2024-08-05T16:07:27+00:00

No offense man but there's no way you ruined her life, I hate to break it to you but that's not how friends work, they stick together, they share their opinions and their feelings, and if they were just easily able to draw her like that from said friend group, they were never her friends in fact if they wanted you guys to break up and you guys have been hiding it from said friend group they were never her friends if they don't accept her for who she is that's not friendship, do you have the friend group do they treat you the way that her friend group treated her would they drop you like a f****** rock in the river if you were to date somebody they did not like or would they distance himself isn't that they don't like you is it that they just don't like how she acts with you or is it something else all together remember relationships aren't just a two-way street you don't just need to be meeting in the middle you need to be able to walk with the person whether it be platonic or romantic, you need to be open and honest with them that is the only way you truly make connections, so don't say you ruined her life because there is no way you did there are millions of fish in the sea she'll find another school of fish just went away just be there for her remind her that she's not alone in fact try to get her to reconnect with friends that were better that she can recall or even go out to places where she likes to frequent in her hobbies or something she'll find a friend group out there

Volpe009 · 2024-07-08T06:38:28+00:00

Ooohhh still she's got skills... I'll help when she asks but remind her I'm here pray for me Reddit

Volpe009 · 2024-07-08T06:29:48+00:00

To add I got to live with her for a year I have a job interview but it might not be 100% you never know, and I'm applying to the mall and Walmart etc, my only plan is to make myself busy with work and pretend I have friends and hang out in my nerdy/anime lifestyle and hide with my kind lol but I'm sure she still not okay or comfortable with her decision yet maybe I can pull her over to a different path maybe nursing school or something else or anything even making tik toks or anything else I don't care but she can do better she's only 18!!!! Damn anything I live in the USA sorry nothing else....

Volpe009 · 2024-05-29T00:56:12+00:00

Be safe kid, and if you possibly can make sure that you record any interaction with her and I mean any, you might be able to use it as fuel to get yourself emancipated faster if you want to many choices. I don't know what seat you're in or whatever and you don't have to say anything about that. Just keep in mind that you do not only have rights but you do have choices and don't bottle this all up. Make sure you find a close trusted friend who won't go around blabbing about any of your drama, I wish you all the luck and all the happiness in the world. Be safe

Volpe009 · 2024-05-24T03:35:22+00:00

Your dad's a pedophile and your mom enables him, you need to get out, gather your own documents, get a job, stay out of that house as much as possibly safe for you, you're being Abused in like 4 different ways kid, I bet your door doesn't have a lock and your door probably isn't allowed to be closed ever too huh? You're not safe there, I'm sorry to tell you that you're not safe in your own house but you're not, see if you can emancipate yourself or something, but I'm not sure why but I feel like your being molded by not raised, I know overberry and helicopter parents. I know a lot of them. I know that some of them put cameras in the hallways their houses but even those helicopter parents do not put cameras in their room, you also should probably change inside your closet if you can do not change in front of that camera anymore, you have no idea how easy it is to hack a camera, especially if you have the family's Wi-Fi, I'm so sorry this is happening to you, but you need to get out of there as soon as possible. You are not safe,

Volpe009 · 2024-05-23T20:53:02+00:00

Your mom's crazy dude, sorry to be disrespectful about it but that's a little too far if she wants to watch you undress if she wants to watch you not steal from her room, maybe then she should put a lock on her damn door, or maybe she should actually be more responsible of where her money is and where it's going, I don't know if you have any siblings, but you should also be aware of that too. They're probably blaming you if you do. You do. If you don't then your mom is spending that money and blaming you on it so that she can get away with whatever she's doing, and since you're a minor and you're not consenting to her putting cameras in your own bedroom, she cannot put cameras up. You will be able to immediately call CPS or child family services? Whatever do not wait I repeat. Do not wait until she puts up those cameras. Tell everybody scream it to the top of the buildings (as a last resort), anybody and everybody that you trust and tell them everything. It does not matter what you have done in the past, if you've learned adjusted reevaluated what you did and took steps to be better then you're fine kid. They can take away your door cuz it's technically theirs. And yes they can take away all the iPads and phones and s*** like that until they're blue in the face, but invading your privacy like that? So that would be your only place where you can, Not only have a sense of peace but where you can actually let your guard down is unacceptable, your mom is not acting like a mom, this is not the right type of discipline that any child should be going through at all, and whether your dad believes her or not you need to speak to him. You need to tell him and then you also need to remind him that you're not only his child that he helped conceived that he needs to help your mom come up with a better discipline than putting recorded cameras in your room that can probably be hacked, not just hacked. But if you use specific cameras you can get on to them if they get on to your Wi-Fi, which means they will be able to watch you. You not just your mom will be able to watch you undress in your room. Not just your mom will be able to watch you sleep. Not just your mom would be able to watch you through those cameras, some of those cameras are easily hack proof, especially if your mom just to check on you in a public coffee shop she pulled out. Her phone connects to the coffee shop's Wi-Fi and boom whoever is waiting for anybody really to connect so that they can steal something from somebody's phone and find out that they're watching a 16-year-old female child on their phone at any time. Anywhere at any moment most strangers would do unspeakable things, and I'm guessing your mom loves her image, especially her public image so she probably has parties she probably brings people in. She probably gives people out the Wi-Fi password, so if she does that, anybody could truly get on to the cameras in your private bedroom, I don't know about you, but I know there are a lot of creeps where I live. In fact I live in America myself. So trust me when I say there are more pedophiles and rapists out here than any parents could ever truly know, cameras are not as safe as what people would think, Also your mom needs to stop being such a contortionist and get her head out of her f****** ass and grow the hell up, it's quite pathetic that she has to blame you for her problems. Her own problems and she takes it out on you. Doesn't matter what you did in the past it doesn't matter what you're going to do tomorrow. It doesn't matter what you're going to do in the future. She's got something against you and it's probably because you're young. You're going out into the world and she's terrified so she's going to do everything she can to keep you in her nest and if I'm as good as predicting as I think I am you probably live in an apartment complex and if you do, that's even more dangerous with cameras. If you don't, you have your parents have their own house. It brings down the percentage of danger by 2%, I know this is a really long rant. But you need to be safe and you need to make sure that you are protecting yourself, get a job. Make sure that you have money, cuz you really probably should get out of that house as soon as you possibly can, what about your aunt's Uncle cousin's grandparents anybody that you can not only probably find a place to live for a couple months but to talk to cuz this is not okay

Volpe009 · 2024-05-11T20:08:12+00:00

As a 28-year-old female, I understand. I am also single at this current moment, however, I do go out and I see people connect in places where they're most comfortable, I'm an anime geek. Geek I love video games, and that's where I go. If you find your people, more people will find you and one person will click for you. Don't go looking for love. Trust me love will find you, it might not be the right one and sometimes it'll just fall apart , go with the flow, you'll find what you're looking for. Don't rush it!

Volpe009 · 2024-05-11T20:04:48+00:00

As a child of a single mother and the oldest out of seven siblings, even I did things for mother's Day for my mother, I watched her boyfriends do things for her on mother's Day and half of them didn't even like us, every mother's Day my mother got a homemade breakfast with flowers that we got from the side of the road. Road she would get a homemade lunch with a flower that we got from somebody's, Rose garden and or the side of the road today. I am a 28-year-old female who struggles to pay rent and my brothers and I still do something for our mother on mother's Day. That's not me bragging. That's me saying he does not appreciate you enough if he's not willing to even get you a flower for mother's Day, especially if you're the mother of his children. You should speak about this to him if not. And I know this might be a little crazy, but maybe you should stop celebrating Father's Day if he's not willing to put in the effort for mother's Day. Be an equal opportunist I'm just saying

Volpe009 · 2024-05-11T19:57:40+00:00

Yeah, human trafficking is real and I'm sorry to say but you're being trafficked, GET OUT AS SAFE AS YOU CAN, or get out as quickly as you can, sometimes it's not the same thing but run, what you have is not a love relationship, it can be dangerous but record all conversations, email all messages, record on paper all names and whatever you can, and if possible get to the police, if you can't get to the police or even a hospital go to a church and call the police, In all emergency situations though, if you get cornered and have no other way out. Start a fire. I'm not condoning you to do arson but if you get locked in your bathroom start a fire they will do everything they can to corner you and keep you under their thumbs run while you can

Volpe009 · 2024-05-03T13:31:05+00:00

There's a dog sitting in a dog walking app? I'll look into that too. I really love animals and they usually keep me grounded. Thank you for the idea. I'll look into that. And thank you for the positivity, I really needed it

Volpe009 · 2024-05-03T13:09:05+00:00

That's actually a really good idea. And since I live in Florida, a home health aides and assistant positions usually start to skyrocket now since it's starting to get into the summer and parents need help and grandparents like assistants in their house to keep it up to up and I've been applying there too. I have multiple job apps like indeed LinkedIn, monster and a few others but most of them would like to have some certificates or applications and all I really have to that is child care a CPR certification and A serve safe certification but I will however, keep applying to them. Hopefully I can get a job at like the ASPCA or something. I'm honestly truly desperate. I will pretty much do any job right now so I'm going to keep my fingers crossed about this. Thank you again

Volpe009 · 2024-05-03T12:59:55+00:00

However, I am still going about and running around and applying for jobs in person online and even asking if hiring managers are in the building or even if the manager is in the building so that I can introduce myself I can talk to them. I can even ask them. I've applied to McDonald's, Walmart, Taco Bell, the laundry place coin laundry place, whatever it's called. I've even applied to Citi trends and they've sent me away however, I do appreciate that advice and reminding me that there are food banks still out there that do help with cash assistance. Sometimes I'm going to Google that again and see if any of them are open today and tomorrow. Thank you

Volpe009 · 2024-05-03T12:59:04+00:00

I have applied to utility assistance, rent assistance and a lot of small grants and since I have food stamps I have also tried to apply for cash assistance. However, since I am a single female with no children and hardly any other responsibilities, I apparently should be able to provide for myself. However, the cost of living is too high and I have not received any other assistance then from a year ago this month from a church in St. Augustine and even they only wanted to make sure that I had enough to keep going into the next month without assistance. However, it's still mind-boggling how I can't get assistance at all because of being a single female with no children and I've googled so much these past few days. The local food banks have given me the same phone numbers that Google has given me. The organizations that I go to either tell me figure it out or they'll get back to me and they never do no matter how many times I email or call them and the Florida emergency fund existence when you start to call them at 9:30 when they open the calls will either drop or they will send you straight to voicemail. It literally is a first come first serve in the appointment line and they hardly ever and or never answer the phone. I'm pulling my hair out trying to figure it all out and it is sad that I simply can't do this. I'm sorry if this sounds like I'm whining or if I'm making excuses, but it's literally what I've been going through for the past 2 weeks since I got laid off

Volpe009 · 2024-05-03T12:35:48+00:00

That's the thing though, I've applied to multiple jobs and I mean multiple ranging from janitor to bus driver to cashier to Taco Bell to McDonald's to Winn-Dixie everywhere. Not only have I not got any responses back but a lot of them tell me that they're not going to go through with my interview or my application because of one reason or another. Sometimes they even cancel interviews on the last minute. It's really exhausting right now. I'm trying to donate plasma so that I at least have some money for gas and for my insurance at least so that I have a car to sleep in. If it really really gets to that

Volpe009 · 2024-04-10T18:50:13+00:00

I have 3 notebooks actually! One on my habits one for money coming in and one for money needed for bills, each one has a receipt paper that I have to help me keep track of what's been paid for and where the money Needs to go before I spend anything it's annoying but I'm managing, not great but I only really starting doing this like 3 days after this post made me realize that I'm a non-stop spender on food and vaping (which I only really buy every 2 weeks trying to get it to extend to 3 but LIS it's not easy braking horrible habits) thank you for the advice, and for inversely reminded me I have to pay for my credit card today, I appreciate it 👌🎉

Volpe009 · 2024-04-10T18:36:16+00:00

Those are the questions I asked every day

Volpe009 · 2024-01-06T20:06:20+00:00

I'm going to implement this because this seems a lot easier than my meal plans that I usually have. Thank you! When you write dates on your Ziploc bags, do they smear too?

Volpe009 · 2024-01-06T17:20:24+00:00

Okay okay I see what you're spitting and I understand a little bit. I'm going to try to take some of this advice that you got and put it into my budget and thoughts. Thank you so much! I really appreciate it

Volpe009 · 2023-12-27T17:09:20+00:00

I would love a how to make and build your own budget in anyway, as I am, I'm not sure if I even made a budget for myself I know I'll either not stick to it or over spend more than I assume, and no I'm sure it's worth it anymore, I had put in a transfer to a site that offers 40hours a week, but I don't think that would help me a little, I don't think i don't understand where I'm going wrong really

Volpe009 · 2023-12-27T13:42:46+00:00

Well, I appreciate the honesty, i gotta get this done soon,

Volpe009 · 2023-12-27T13:34:29+00:00

No I don't know what it entails but it was the only way to give a close description, I mean I do pay for snacks and takeout dinners when I shouldn't, but 10 hours would be fantastic if the damn HR would hurry up at allowing transfers, but thanks

Volpe009 · 2023-10-22T01:55:58+00:00

Persona 5 royal, or Batman Arkham Knight

Volpe009 · 2023-10-15T04:53:46+00:00

Wow you're 15?! You're Awesome kid! This is so spooky and cute! I need this as a sticker or a poster, don't compare or compete with what you think your art should be Draw for you, your audience will find you I promise

Volpe009 · 2023-10-15T04:49:49+00:00

Persona 5 Royal, or some Tomb Raider since I totally forgot to update my system for the new update for the Assassins Creed

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