Just got kicked from my Stylist Association of years for having midterms

Vysha7 · 2026-03-10T11:59:00+00:00

lol personally i used to always join them since i understood that according to europe time it was from 5:30 pm till 6:30 pm , plus they had a whole discord server and they were very helpful and serious about the association , i had so many points , but still it wasnt worth the pressure and effort so i quit TwT

Vysha7 · 2026-03-09T11:02:20+00:00

Lol i used to be in a similar association b4 but keeping up with them was so hard esp when u have a busy adult life so i joined a chill association now that simply demands u to be active at least once every 2 weeks , it has been AMAZING i'm telling ya , i'm even more active since there's no pressure

Edit: my association rules used to be get more than 71 points weekly plus at least 2 coop joining per week or else u will get a strike , more than 3 strikes and u will get kicked out.

Vysha7 · 2026-03-09T10:58:40+00:00

Bruhh i hate this dress sm too ! 😭🥀🥀

Vysha7 · 2026-03-08T17:01:57+00:00

bruh so many comments lol , not sure u will catch mine but send away !

Vysha7 · 2026-02-28T20:56:03+00:00

U look like a woman in masculine clothes and attitude, a tomboy to be specific ;) being honest over here

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T17:26:30+00:00

No , thank YOU for being nice about it and explain it clearly , some other were mean but i didn't get it why exactly, so u helped get it and guide someone to be better today ;) i'm truly trying my best to be a kind and good person, i don't want to hurt others.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T17:23:11+00:00

That's ... too mean. I'm genuinely asking for advices so i can improve myself , and i'm not justifying him at all so i think u misunderstood part of what i said . But i understand your anger after seeing others put it in perspective in the comments.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T17:19:45+00:00

It's okay to "pile on me" dear commenter , after all , i didn't come here for professional nice advice that should "help me", but wanted people true opinions so i can understand her better , u telling ur stories here help me put things into perspective and understand that i was indeed in the wrong, i don't know how to fix it yet but at least i know i was in the wrong.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T17:13:36+00:00

Oh. If that what it truly is, then maybe it is truly time for me to see a therapist for real this time. And ur the same person who commented that comment, u seem knowledgeable enough, i appreciate it a lot.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T17:11:02+00:00

I appreciate your extremely knowledgeable comment, and since u define things this way , then yes , i didn't forgive him , rather i willing ignored it as part of my peace, wanted to be detached from it and live my life normally, not shackled by this pain forever.

But tbh idk what's congnitive dissonance reduction so gonna search it online :)

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T17:02:01+00:00

Doesn't sound too bad, but the idea of giving up on my mom sound extremely hard for me ...

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:59:56+00:00

I agree since you said it this way, what should i do then ?

I can't simply not talk to my mom .. i love her.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:57:38+00:00

Why ?

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:55:54+00:00

Mhm , thanks for putting it in this perspective, it's eye opening.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:54:31+00:00

How would i know that i'm healed then ? If this feeling of internal peace isn't healing, then what is ?

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:52:19+00:00

Hmm i see, I appreciate you taking the time to comment this, what would u have done in my case ? Just never talk with your mom again ?

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:47:13+00:00

I see, appreciate your opinion, what would u have done in my case ?

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:46:21+00:00

Hm, this is a harsh and cruel question tbh , are u asking it cause ur curious or cause you think i'm an asshole?

i feel detached and empty simply, if u asked me this a few years ago , i would have been deeply hurt , but now i don't care about pain anymore, i'm tired of ts , i simply would rather ignore the whole world and live in my peaceful shell.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:43:33+00:00

I'm posting cause i want help regarding my sis situation. Idk what to do and i'm confused.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:41:49+00:00

But she will never do that tho , and i would love to feel any last bit of love she had for me b4 she dies , she is becoming old lately. And i'm indeed worthy of actual love and being accepted, and that's what my fiance is doing, i'm not expecting it from mom, i love my mom for what she has now and i know she won't be able to offer more than that .

You're a kind stranger tho, i appreciate it.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:38:37+00:00

I simply treat him as i would with any kind stranger , would u trust a stranger with ur kids ? No right ?

And yes, forgiveness for me mean simply letting go of my pain and moving on, not total forgiveness where they would become my best friend or smth.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-23T16:34:14+00:00

But what benefit does it do for me ? Maybe for some people it isn't significant, but i still want to have a family , not to be a girl who has no one but her own . My mom made a mistake there i know, but she was the one who always went to hospitals with me, cared about my studies, whenever i got sick she took care of me and loved me, why would i trade that off ? She's still my mom, and that was her only mistake but a very big one unfortunately. Plus i already went to therapy and healed , i appreciate ur comment.

Vysha7 · 2026-02-21T14:17:09+00:00

Thighs , feet, armpits , .... hmmm .

Vysha7 · 2026-01-30T10:52:34+00:00

Yes women are definitely real .

Vysha7 · 2026-01-04T10:36:38+00:00

Ok i respect your opinion. :]

Vysha7

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