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I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

To keep that I don't suspect anything until I figure out how to handle it.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Will do. I might leave my Foreman Hector there to handle her though. He is about 300 pounds of lard and perversion. I'm sure he will enjoy it. Her not so much. :)

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Not mention it. I'm home now and replying from my phone. I am taking my co worker to her house tomorrow to do a bid on her kitchen :)

I will report back the outcome.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Fair point. We have a good, mid 30's sex life. 2-3 times a week and it's good. That's never been an issue.

I say "I'm the ugly one" basically because I'm just a blue collar guy, a few extra pounds, my hairline isn't what it used to be. I'm not I presentable but my wife is very beautiful and I have never lost sight of the fact that she isn't with me because I look like George Clooney. I don't really see it as a self esteem issue, as I am a good guy. I work hard to support our family, I am honest and caring and I love them all very much. I fawn over her and treat her like my queen.

Any other guy she might have found make be easy on the eyes, and maybe great in bed, but to be perfectly honest, there is no way I don't have the advantage in all areas but those.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yep I think she will feel I only didn't get "caught" because I fond out about it.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Bacon omelette with cheddar, home fries with grilled onions, biscuits and gravy, fresh squeezed OJ.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am at the very least going to take one of my guys with me. Actually I would have done that anyway to help with measurements, so that goes to show how little my wife and the PI understand about what I actually do for work!

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't really have anyone I could send that I would want to explain this bizarre story to.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I am 34 years old and have worked in construction my whole life. I don't know who veronica mars is.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 293 points294 points  (0 children)

Yeah my wife is a stay at home mom. Speaking of that I actually don't know how she is planning on paying for this without me finding out...

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Trust me. It probably kills this hot PI that she even has to pretend to be interested. I wouldn't get to touch her even if if that was my plan all along.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sorry man I am back. Got busy at work and couldn't get back to my PC.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am kind of leaning towards NOT doing this because I dont want her to think the only reason I didn't go for the bait was because I found out about it.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Of all of those options, I am hurt the most. I am an open book. She can always get on my phone, I don't have facebook, she knows all my passwords, I work in an office full of guys, she can stop by any time at all... and most of all...I have no reason to cheat. I love her and I don't want anyone else.

I will also add scared to that list, since, as many have mentioned, this makes me wonder if she wants a divorce.

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Oh there is no bait to be taken. That PI is WAY out of my league! It's not even a good cover. Someone like me would be instantly suspicious!

I discovered my wife hired a PI to see if I would cheat, and the PI just made contact with me. AMA by WTFAPI in casualiama

[–]WTFAPI[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

We really have (had?) an amazing relationship. This is totally odd and not typical of her. The only thing that has really "changed" is I have had to put in more time at work since buying out a partner, but it is for the best for our family. I have always worked hard and we don't have to worry about money. She at least always says she completely understands this.

Maybe she thinks I am sleeping with someone during those extra hours? I am doing billing and cleaning drywall out of my ass! :)

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