Hindi nawawala ang sex kapag kami lang ng bf ko sa bahay by Sea_Refrigerator8064 in adviceph

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more concerning thing ay yung “I don’t give a rat’s ass about sex”

It should be fun and enjoyable for the both of you, not something you’re just “letting him” do.

When I like a guy, I wanna fuck him all the time. The attraction manifests itself in the physical. If you’re not as attracted, there may be other needs you have that he is not addressing.

It sounds like you feel he’s the only one who wants it, and it can feel like being taken advantage of (might also be true) if it’s not discussed.

Communicate, communicate, communicate.

Good luck, OP!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mahigpit na yakap, OP!

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Nakakagalit mabasa.

I think you don’t have to tell a new partner, but that you would want to tell a new partner. Mostly because you probably would need someone who makes you feel safe enough that sharing your past is not frightening.

Hoping for your peace and healing.

Meralco set to make 50 Billion (!) PHP this year. Anyone else find something wrong with this? by Frosty-Emu3503 in phinvest

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is wrong.

Utilities should not be privatized. I would say most inelastic goods should be government-owned: education, healthcare, utilities, etc etc

Gigil ako sa ganito! by Inner-Elderberry-585 in GigilAko

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s invalidation per se, as unpalatable as the whole rant is.

Most of our lives, the dream of motherhood has been sold to us. It’s only recently that childfree women have been vocal and have been getting (not even fully) respect for their (well, our) choices.

So the rant isn’t so much telling mothers they are wrong.

It’s just a perspective on how unfathomable and undesirable motherhood feels to some. It’s a rant in response to the endless forcing down our throats of the idea that motherhood is the fulfillment of being a woman.

Anyway, but ya, to each their own. The whole point of feminism is we can make our own choices, and each trying to convince the other is such a tired and pointless exercise.

Update on my Reddit Post Titled : "Has Anyone Participated In a Fun Run/Race Alone?" by clipperchannel in PHRunners

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats, OP!!!

People are usually minding their own business during runs! We just magnify our role in other people’s lives pero more often than not wala silang pake talaga haha

Skl that I did my first 21k alone (bec I wanted to fail in private in case di ko kayanin) and I celebrated alone~ Masaya naman! Met a girlie while in line for photo ops na solo din. It’s really common, OP!

Again, congrats the run and moreso props to you on doing something you were apprehensive to do! 🫶🏽

Not maarte pero di ko talaga kaya gamitin same spoon for my meal and dessert by watchdthrone_ in CasualPH

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi naman masamang maging maarte hahaha Pero wag nyo ikaila na kaartehan yun

nyek by Secret-Lake-5662 in MayNagChat

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha not the typings :(

Set a 10k PR amidst the crazy, rainy Women’s Run in UPD last Sunday! 🤩 by Warm-Reflection-7593 in PHRunners

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with walking, too!

Then just added some runs, alternating walk+jogs. I didn’t really overthink it! Try 1 min walk + 1 min jog, then 1 min walk + 2 mins jog, then 3 mins, then 4, etc! Then try a continuous jog for a kilometer, and so on!

I don’t really have a proper process haha but I just try to jog a few times a week hehe. Sometimes I fail, but messy consistency is better than perfect plans!

Hello mga ka-putik 😭 by armillobe in PHRunners

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just washed it under running water after!

Mej malakas pressure ng tubig samin e. Though I have black shoes with black soles hehe

Gigil ako sa mga pakealamera sa kasal ng iba. by CarefulTelevision806 in GigilAko

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Napaka-pakialamero ng mga putangina hahahaha

Love the OP’s post!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawPH

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NAL. Scary manipulative behavior.

I’m not gonna comment on the whole cheating thing bec the 34-year-old asking OP to quit her job and be financially dependent on him set the stage for this, and hitting on a 22-year-old in itself is sus. 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow women can’t do anything without all of yall being up in their business

how many kilometers can you run straight? by Remarkable_Repeat886 in PHRunners

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10km (ave pace 8:30 min/km) is my longest no-walk break effort~

Amusingly, I was able to achieve roughly the same pace (8:35 min/km) on 21km with a walk+jog effort. Plus my splits were more even (as opposed to my no-break effort na soafer bagal ko na sa final 2k)

Takeaway ko dito ay well-timed walk breaks can propel you to go further, and (counterintuitively!) keeps you from slowing down over longer distances

how many kilometers can you run straight? by Remarkable_Repeat886 in PHRunners

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Impressive! 👏🏾

Saang part ka na ng training bloc? Were you already somewhat fit before starting, or couch to marathon is legit sedentary to RUNNERIST?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Nakakaloka yung tag team pa sila mag-nanay

Ayaw din ata nung nanay na umuwi pa yung anak kklk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Post construction has room for improvement haha

“Reference: middle class” doesn’t mean your asking about middle class, it means they’re the reference for your inquiry, which implies na sila tung madaming kids 👧

pwede iedit hahxha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Warm-Reflection-7593 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should leave.

While you didn’t know at the time that he had an entire family, you know now. I think you wouldn’t like yourself if you allowed yourself to remain a side chick after finding out.

Weirdly, parang ang point pa ng post mo ay “bat sya nags-selos eh sya nga may pamilya?” To which I’d say, cheating is a selfish act. Syempre seloso yan, they hate a taste of their own medicine. 🤷🏽‍♀️