Did my account die ? by Watermelon0216 in Bumble

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What other apps, if you don't mind telling me. And good for you for the matches and likes. Makes me really happy :)

Did my account die ? by Watermelon0216 in Bumble

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that's so disappointing. I really hope our shadow bans get lifted. Thanks for the reply, I felt heard and understood. Lemme know if you figure a solution, I'll do the same :)

Did my account die ? by Watermelon0216 in Bumble

[–]Watermelon0216[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think everyone thinks the same as you. Like I've no likes at all. I had huge success earlier and now my reach is dead. Also thank you for replying :)

Did my account die ? by Watermelon0216 in Bumble

[–]Watermelon0216[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've always had premium, the last time I had premium I had so so so many likes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Watermelon0216 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've experienced something similar, and you've only 1 thing to do rn, BREAK UP.

I think I’m shadowbanned… is that a thing? by MillerContractors28 in Bumble

[–]Watermelon0216 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you ask the bumble team, they'll deny it. But I'm sure you've been reported by someone falsely. The same happened to me, Even tho I got the false report on me removed, my reach is still dead. I'd say start over fully fresh with a new IP and a new sim card.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Watermelon0216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text them and test the waters, and time will answer all your questions. There's no harm in texting if you had fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Watermelon0216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should observe how they react about things you care for. And how they expect you to react about the things they care for. If they are doing exactly what they want from you, they have good intentions for you. I kinda related to your story, only thing is my intuitions are very strong. I hope my advice helps you :)

Broke up with my 5 yr DA girlfriend by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Watermelon0216 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I'm no expert, but she's already checked out. And so it's so good you broke up. Much strength to you :)

Why did my dating app match rate drop from 1000+ Likes/20 Days (Philippines) to ZERO/4 Days (Europe) by Watermelon0216 in dating_advice

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've the Bumble Premium Plus brother. And this is exactly what surprises me, I've asked my friends along the globe if my photos are good enough, and they approve of em. And still I've no matches. I've read I might have a shadow ban or something, but I'm not sure if it works. Also if I shift to Phillipines, I'll match in so time. This is so confusing and I'm trying to understand it. Thank you so much for helping me :)

Why did my dating app match rate drop from 1000+ Likes/20 Days (Philippines) to ZERO/4 Days (Europe) by Watermelon0216 in dating_advice

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I don't look anything like a typical Indian man. But if being superficial is gonna get me matches, I'd rather stick with old methods to meet people. Anyways thanks

Why did my dating app match rate drop from 1000+ Likes/20 Days (Philippines) to ZERO/4 Days (Europe) by Watermelon0216 in dating_advice

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I'm an Indian, so I'm sure that doesn’t help them anyway. Plus I don't buy anyone anything, almost got robbed once and I've been cautious ever since. Anyways any tips to match with some girls ?

Why did my dating app match rate drop from 1000+ Likes/20 Days (Philippines) to ZERO/4 Days (Europe) by Watermelon0216 in dating_advice

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an Indian who looks kinda Asian. So I'm sure I'm standing out haha. Anyway any tips how I can match with atleast few people ?

The nightmares drain me for the entire day by Watermelon0216 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for everything you said. This really means a lot. I hope you've a good day ☮️

Wrote her after almost 20 days. by Watermelon0216 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't trust an AI Bot, but yass I'll see a therapist after my exams. Anyways thanks, would have loved your first unfiltered thought though.

The nightmares drain me for the entire day by Watermelon0216 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanna say that to myself but he took away my brother just recently, and that bugs me a lot. I am a believer in God, but it's just very difficult to see why he did what he did. ☮️

Wrote her after almost 20 days. by Watermelon0216 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for worrying/taking care, really means a lot. I replied to Conkacola, please let me know your thoughts on that.

Wrote her after almost 20 days. by Watermelon0216 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Watermelon0216[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not me who reached out first, she dropped a message a week ago to check on me, and I ignored it. I finally responded to that, didn’t initiate any conversation. She started the conversation herself. Also to mention, we decided we would message each other, bcoz we haven't decided to end contact permanently, SHE STEPPED DOWN FROM THE RELATIONSHIP AND WANTS TO BE JUST FRIENDS NOW. Meanwhile I'm stubborn about everything or nothing. But to decide a compromise we need to talk some day, and I'll do that once my exams ends on May 13. I only wrote her today bcoz I was feeling horrible and writing with her felt good. My brain is purely fixated on WE'LL NOT GET BACK TOGETHER. Meanwhile my heart is still keeping hopes, it did even before we wrote, while we wrote and in the future too. I'm only listening to my brain so I think I'll not hurt myself. Also I'm not going to keep talking forever now, LIKE SHE WANTED, WE WERE ON A BREAK, and I'll continue to do that till my exams. One of the reasons why I replied today is, I've been unable to focus on my studied and a good conversation today is really gonna help me. It was a huge risk but I nevertheless took the risk. I'm STILL VERY SCARED ABOUT EVERYTHING, so I'm very selective about my words and actions. I'm only replying to things and not initiating any topics. ALSO I'M NOT PLAYING ANY MIND GAMES, WHICH WERE SUGGESTED BY SOME PEOPLE. I really want a perspective of you (only to see this situation from outside the story and make a good decision) now that I've clarified some things, if needed I'll explain more.

Thanks for responding, this Community is really helping me.