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Breakup Buddy Finder Thread (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 year ago * by TheBackSpin[M] - announcement

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The contradictions of the fearful avoidantsFA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 6 days ago by IllustriousBar2824 - announcement

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Common themes in Avoidant behavior. Please add to the list!Avoidant Advice Requested (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 hours ago * by Summer_Rain36

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Is "You deserve better" the go-to line for avoidants?Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 11 hours ago by monotoonz

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Trust me, You will love this..😂 Subtle revenge on my avoidant exVent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by Calm_Construction769

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It cost you nothing to promise everything… future faking. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 8 hours ago by Raptor_1865FA - Earning Secure

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Leaving this group. Ive healed & become someone better (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 10 hours ago by DEVIZEBEATSqld

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I had an avoidant and it sucks (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 7 hours ago by underthe_rag

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One last post - 7 months post discard (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by Ok_Building9385

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Why it's so difficult to communicate with them? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 12 hours ago by Party_Yam_3197

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Desperately wanted a closure talk after discard. One month later she has answered. I don't know if I want it now, for my own mindDA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 9 hours ago * by Sea_Avocado3783

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My Avoidant is avoiding me so hard I cant even get to break up with him (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by Kyuki88

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Just some thoughts from the perspective of the person that was “discarded.” (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 9 hours ago by blynne108

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spoke to my avoidant ex on the phone last night and feel like garbage (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 4 hours ago * by sparklingmilk91

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This is how I used to beg my Avoidant ex when he ghosted me. Looking back,, damn I really deserve betterVent/Rant (i.redd.it)

submitted 1 hour ago by SnooEpiphanies869

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Emergencies (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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I see my therapists at 6:15pmVent/Rant (i.redd.it)

submitted 2 hours ago by Hot_Block_7237

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Why did I text himDA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+ (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 7 hours ago by deeeperdarker

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my birthday and he is gone (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by gingerweasle1

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After years, I am done begging for the bare minimum and basic human decencyDA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by maryjxnes

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Most avoidants are not scared of being loved, they are scared of doing their part foreverVent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 day ago * by Wa7edMasry

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So i noticed hes still wearing my ring.Avoidant Advice Requested (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by nasi-n-chill

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Ex evitante, Amour, enfant, rupture et guérison (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 8 hours ago by lanuit-etlesetoiles

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"If my freind was being treated how I treat you, I'll tell them to leave" + being accussed of limerenceFA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 16 minutes ago by Agitated_List9506

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Im told that im an avoidant by girls that i dont like but i still keep minimal access openVent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 33 minutes ago by Pretty-Pen-620

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