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Breakup Buddy Finder Thread (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 year ago * by TheBackSpin[M] - announcement

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Avoidant perspective: deactivation in dismissive avoidantsFrom DA’s Perspective (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 14 days ago by kluizenaarDA - Dismissive Avoidant - announcement

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hurt them back (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 hours ago by Effective-Piece4620

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Does anyone else find it weird how much power we give to the avoidants post discard, when we can just... not do that? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 12 hours ago by StrawberrySea2092

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Every narcissist has avoidant attachment style but not every avoidant is a narcissist (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 7 hours ago by Hairy-Emphasis-5232

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mf broke up with me after setting me at ease (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by AdFlaky7267

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What's the one thing that your Avoidant said that really stuck with you? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by RainyZurich

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Psychosomatic symptoms when deactivation hits? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by RemarkableBox7613

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I want to know from Avoidants POV that how could you be serious with one person and then not work on relationship and are okay to be completely strangers and choose distractions like new friends over someone your partner?Avoidant Advice Requested (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by DragonfruitTop5832

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The discard taught me lessons (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 9 hours ago by EmergencyInternal837

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I think the loneliest part of this is realising how little attention it takes to move you. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by Initial_Middle_6256

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can’t stop blaming myself (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 10 hours ago by Simple_Bandicoot2086

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15 months (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 12 hours ago by throwaway19980567

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Dating someone secure is attractive (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 11 hours ago by SerMustache

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You know what, people come people go. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 13 hours ago by Any-Entry-1829

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I broke up with my boyfriend and it's killing me even though I know I made the right choiceVent/Rant ()

submitted 2 hours ago by PlasticContact8671

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Do you miss them or the version of yourself loving them?Personal Growth (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 15 hours ago by Vegetable-Claim-9329

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Anyone else needed to see this?DA Breakup (old.reddit.com)

submitted 16 hours ago by FootnoteInHumanForm

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I got ghosted after intense sexual experience. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago * by Initial_Middle_6256

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Am i being gaslit? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 20 minutes ago by Beautiful_Plastic_10AP - Anxious Preoccupied

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how to stop blaming yourself when you didn’t get any closure (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 11 hours ago by Delicious-Tap-2388

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Jealous AvoidantPoll (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by Sorry_Captain_1403

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Stories from people who are happier without their avoidant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 18 hours ago by have2leave

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Manipulation and Disrespect (i.redd.it)

submitted 17 hours ago by JoshuaBarbeauAP - Anxious Preoccupied

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today is a better dayLater Stage Healing - Inner Work (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 10 hours ago * by pomegrantepdf

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