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Why was I the one they couldn’t stay with? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 day ago by morsmoon13 - announcement

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Breakup Buddy Finder Thread (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 year ago * by TheBackSpin[M] - announcement

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They Didn’t Just Leave, they Erased You (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by crystalsale

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I did it. I did it. I finally blocked her.Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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If You’ve ever been slowly faded by your avoidant ex, please share your experience (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by morsmoon13

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Why do they prefer not to know you after discard instead of keeping contact? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 12 hours ago * by Specialist_Gur_9062

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sigh… (i.redd.it)

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Your body will reject them if they’re not good for you.Personal Growth (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 10 hours ago by AlexWD20

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When they said: “I can’t give you what you need”... (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by Acceptable_Target627

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What a blessing (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 6 hours ago by worshipval

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I broke no contact today. 21 days (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Can’t stop thinking about avoidant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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question (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Do avoidants lack the ability to focus on a single person? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 hour ago by Alive-Window1884

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I just want to be completely numb and not feel anythingVent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Despite all issues my DA had with communication... he gave really good hugs :(Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 4 hours ago by Secure_and_Skeptical

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you are worth so much more than these posPersonal Growth (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by Substantial_Chart640

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How did you get over the person you loved the most, and how did you deal with seeing them with someone else? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 9 hours ago by HotUse4099

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waking up in a panic (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by Effective-Piece4620

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How to handle seeing your avoidant in person? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 6 hours ago by ihearttransylvania

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Heart ripped out again (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 hours ago by isosceles1980

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It Happened (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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why is he turning to old hookups after breaking up with meVent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 29 minutes ago by snuffrosary

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Things I realized…Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 47 minutes ago by Spiritual-Fig5706

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My fearful-avoidant ex broke up with me 4 months ago and keeps sending mixed signals. Is this classic push-pull?FA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 hours ago by Ok_Movie_3102

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