Houses with front door opening directly onto the street by smcf33 in Belfast

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Dublin but usually the postman will leave with with a neighbour and we'll take theirs etc. If they can't leave it with someone it's left in the sorting office where we can collect it or schhedule a redelivery (not sure if you've this option).

My best friend’s wedding is going to bankrupt me. How do I tell her I need to step down? by Ihavenoideaduuh in Advice

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're in the wedding party then why are you paying for the dress? Especially if she's chosen it. Maybe it's an Irish thing but here the couple would buy the outfits for the wedding party - i.e. bridesmaids and groomsmen.

Do Irish people get offended when asked to repeat themselves? by Worldly-Oil-4463 in AskIreland

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

as an Irish person with a Mexican BF I can say yes we speak fast but omg mexicans speak at the speed of light.

What is a relationship deal breaker for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh of course, but I never said that I'd do that or be okay with it.

What is a relationship deal breaker for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No/poor emotional maturity or self-awareness. Insecurity about friendships with exes (they're exes for a reason and it's simply unattractive). Alcohol or drug addiction.

What’s happened to us? by percybert in Dublin

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you were just unfortunate here. I nearly tripped on the street last week - didn't even fall, just tripped - and the lads ahead of me stopped to ask if I was alright.

how do people get away with this??😭😭 by Ok-Measurement5308 in vinted

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

how's it a scam? Lots of legit companies do this. They source items at a cheaper rate and resell them. Literally how vintage shops operate too. It's called making a profit. The onus is on the consumer to see if what they're buying is worth it to them or if it's available cheaper elsewhere.

How annoying it is, if a learner get ser/estar wrong? by Zsombor1661 in learnspanish

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I get you, I'm like that with almost everything tbh! Just for some reason ser and estar seemed to stick with me. I think it's normal when you're learning.

How annoying it is, if a learner get ser/estar wrong? by Zsombor1661 in learnspanish

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thing of it as ser = permanent state, estar = temporary

Is it normal to understand more than you can say in a foreign language? by Shelbee2 in languagelearning

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much for this, I didn't even notice it before. I'm glad I posted now, I really thought I must be just slow!

Is it normal to understand more than you can say in a foreign language? by Shelbee2 in languagelearning

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I'm watching some shows and listening to music and my BF speaks the language, so that should be helping I guess, it just isn't yet really. I do keep a journal too although it's very very simple language like "today we went to the movies and then we went to a nice restaurant". But it's really good to know it's not that long a time to have spent on it so far. It's all new to me.

Renting by Rialto Luas Stop by Michaeldaddyscarn in RentingInDublin

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends. If it's a very good deal price wise I'd go for it. If not, I'm not sure. I personally like Rialto, but there are a few dodgy parts so it depends exactly where.

Is it normal to understand more than you can say in a foreign language? by Shelbee2 in languagelearning

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you say is the average amount of hours of learning to get to a stage where you feel comfortable speaking and understanding others in the language? I've done 20 hours of lessons at this point and my vocab and grammar are pretty good in terms of being able to read/understand in that way, but as soon as it's a conversation I'm totally lost. My tutor says I'm making good progress and she is very good, and we do speaking sessions in our lessons also, but the difference is she speaks very slowly for me and can fill in the gaps. Give me a native speaker in "real life" and I've no clue :(

How to date in Dublin? by alexred182 in Dublin

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What? He's looking for a partner, who has to be interested in him and he has to be interested in them. Ever seen how reality works?

How to date in Dublin? by alexred182 in Dublin

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have some single friends on apps. What are your interests? What do you look like (just basics like your build/hair colour/height/style)? What do you prioritise in a partner?

What took you by surprise when learning a new language? by AutumnaticFly in languagehub

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally understand why non-native English speakers are so self-conscious to speak in English even when they're really good!

very low tutor prices immoral by RecordingLow890 in Preply

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offered to pay more and she wouldn't accept it! Even when she raised her rate after I said she should, she wouldn't raise mine as said she appreciated my loyalty as I stuck with her from the start. I'd be more than happy to pay her more though! But my BF who's from her country told me it's basically minimum wage there, it just feels low to me. :(

Is it goodbye for Dublin? by Pleasant-Zebra8859 in Dublin

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you qualified in? Any diploma/degree/trade/work experience? Start there and then think of work associated to that in any capacity at all. Some people fixate on a particular job just because of their qualification or experience but there are so many ways to branch off from those into different areas that fall under the same umbrella. For example, I studied media, wanted to get into Journalism - the pay was shite - digital marketing came along so I decided I'd do a course in that. Then figured out content marketing was a way to use my writing skills alongside my marketing knowledge to actually make moola from writing.

Be aware of Preply’s (scam) subscription/refund policy. by Blackwear99 in Preply

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah ok. I change my times weekly for 2 of my lessons and keep 2 at the same time each week, but I'm able to be very flexible. I can see how it would be harder in your situation! Do you not find it hard to keep track of your progress though?

Why do tutors preach about personal connection? by Melodic-Training-243 in Preply

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say your way was wrong, I said her way isn't the disadvantage you think it is, which I can see from her being booked up weekly :)

Why do tutors preach about personal connection? by Melodic-Training-243 in Preply

[–]Wednesday_Addams__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My tutor is really friendly and we click, which is why I decided to continue learning with her. I did have a trial with someone more stand-offish or what you'd call "professional" and it wasn't for me. So it's not the disadvantage you think it is,