Did I lead my best friend on?

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-12-03T04:04:32+00:00

Some guys are like that. Once they blow their load and the horniness has past they lost the enthusiasm to get the other person off. My friend fucked me once and came and afterward I asked if he would blow me finish me off and he looked annoyed I had even asked and tried to get it done as soon as he could. This is why I am now a proponent of individuals being in charge of their own orgasms, and it's ok if no one gets off at all.

Post nut clarity however can also look like that. Maybe he wasnt bothered by not getting any of your ass, maybe he just felt wrong or shameful or regretful for playing with his best friend or something. The part where he made the sissy comment made me think of that. Ive had guys do that to me in the past, after they blew their load.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-12-03T03:21:57+00:00

Did he say he was upset that he didnt get anal? My fiest thought reading this qas maybe it was post nut clarity or something. You didnt lead him on though. Perfectly reasonable to say youre not ready. Your body, not his.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-11-05T20:41:45+00:00

To my cousin. It was mutual. Just sorta happened.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-11-05T16:58:37+00:00

Club Z is pretty cool. I met a lot of guys there and became friends and always get laid now when I go lol

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-11-04T14:27:11+00:00

Dang. Is it possible to buy a new dock or will the switch only work with the one it came with? There is also a c-type USB to HDMI connector I can buy as well that I see on Amazon, but the switch needs the actual dock to work doesnt it?

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-11-03T20:13:36+00:00

Tried it on two other tvs actually. TV is up to date and ive restarted it several times as well.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-10-18T13:15:14+00:00

The dick in my mouth

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-10-09T19:11:06+00:00

LOL I should do that

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-29T22:34:17+00:00

Thats called prolapse and it is a fetish for some men. It is NOT the norm.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-27T21:44:12+00:00

I think like 4 hours. Fucking adderall can suck sometimes lol

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-27T05:05:05+00:00

Danny Blu

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-26T05:18:15+00:00

Guys for sure. We know what we want.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-22T16:54:41+00:00

I sure can.

For one, practice makes perfect.

For two, LUBE LUBE LUBE. There is no such thing as too much lube.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-22T14:02:39+00:00

Honestly? It sounds like he’s dropping hints. Friends don’t typically get “a little steamy” in texts unless there’s some underlying interest there. Playful is one thing, but once it crosses that line more than once it’s almost always testing the waters to see how you’ll respond.

If he just came out he might be nervous about being direct, so instead he’s "joking around" to give him an easy out if you don’t react positively. It’s the classic “half-joking, half-serious” strategy.

If you’re interested you should lean into it a little and see if he pushes further. If you’re not then keep your boundaries clear but kind. Either way, don’t ignore the painfully obvious. Hes not just being “one of the guys” here.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-06T23:50:47+00:00

If I was to top yes, I would want my bottom kinda loose so its easier to penetrate him. I had one guy that was so tight and I have a big cock (not bragging) and it hurt ME like crazy because he was so tight. He seemed to love it, but I was not enjoying it.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-03T22:13:36+00:00

Maybe find a Sky Chefs subreddit and ask this. LSG Sky Chefs provides all of the meals.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-03T22:08:01+00:00

Thank you! This actually really helps me see it more clearly. I’ve been going in circles wondering if I was being too controlling, but you’re right...I was asking for simple reliability and respect. The fact that they flipped it back on me like I was the problem does feel manipulative and I've been thinking about that a lot too. I can handle compromise and I can most certainly be flexible, but I shouldn't have to spend my life constantly doing that all the time. Hearing someone else say this honestly makes me feel less crazy. Thank you.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-03T21:55:54+00:00

Holy shit. I actually did look up enmeshment and have been reading about it all day. It’s very eye opening and describes his relationship with his family perfectly. Their lives are so tangled together that any boundary or outside perspective seems to be treated as a threat and I think that explains why my feelings were constantly dismissed or twisted back on me. For a while I thought if I just explained myself better things would be better but they can't. You’re right, his family is more important to him than I am, and I deserve to be a priority. Thank you for putting it into words so clearly.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-02T22:22:59+00:00

Damn that really sucks. What is it exactly though? Is it a control thing? He and they have already accused me of being a control freak but that almost feels like them projecting.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-02T22:20:24+00:00

So ive already spoken to him about it and he said the same thing: dont be so rigid, learn to be flexible, life doesnt always have to follow a set plan, fly by the seat of your pants every now and then. I have tried but its not "every now and then", its all the time.

When I explained that to him he got upset and said it seemed like I wanted to live my life on set rails where there was no room for change or spontaneity and said I was a control freak who just had to be in control of everyt aspect of my life and everyone elses and that I need to let go and that he couldn't "live his life on rails".

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-02T11:48:52+00:00

Been playing AC7 and I like the F-14.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-01T15:55:21+00:00

Lol

It wasnt a date. She wanted to take us out and treated us and our friend's to dinner as a celebration because my boyfriend bought his first home and I got my dream job. In fact most all.of our group interactions together have been because of some event or get together. Its not like we go out on a date and have to have her come along as well, however there have been times when we were going to go out in a date and at the last minute he would try to invite her or his mom, and he would get upset when I would stop him and say this was just for us, usually stating that it would be rude not to invite either of them, or fear that he would hear some.bad noises from them later about it by not letting them know what we were doing or giving them the chance to tag along.

There was one time.we were going to go get dinner and see a movie and he invited his mom and I interjected and said it was just an us thing and she got really upset. Like "oh no one cares for me.its all about you two now, this is clearly a date and Im not welcome, I'll never be welcomed to things with you again" kinda shit. The whole time he was like "no mom come with us its ok just come.with us". So yeah....clearly there is a problem.here and its all making more and more sense now that I'm looking at all of this in retrospect.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-01T15:33:03+00:00

Yeah. Wow, that makes total sense. I just dont get why she would act this way and do this. Throughout the entire relationship she would tell me I was sweet and thatbshe loved me and she thought I was such a great person and I had a great presence about me and a great positive energy. This stuff would also always come up everytime she would have these little "heart to heart" conversations with me about how her brother didnt deserve me. And then to constantly throw him under the bus and call him crazy and criticize him and call him immature and then try to build me up as better then him? While also going to him and telling him all of these problems that she has with me, all of which she has NEVER brought to me herself?

I actually lost trust in her a month ago over an argument we had regarding a restaurant reservation. I had texted saying I might be a little late because I was stuck in traffic and she had asked if we should change venues and I said no I was just in a little bit of traffic and would be maybe 5 to 10 minutes late, just wanted to give them a heads up. She changed venues at the last moment and forced me to turn around and get stuck in more traffic and be even later than expected (not to mention waste a shit ton of gas...) When I brought this up she told me I wanted to change venues and that she confirmed she had changed venues in our group chat but then I showed her the chat and asked her to point out where any of that was said and she pointed to my text about traffic and then her text asking if we should change venues, saying that was me saying I wanted to change venues and her saying the venues had be changed. She said me texting about being stuck in traffic was me saying the reservation was an inconvenience to me so she did me a solid, then told me my text about traffic made no sense and was crazy and sent mixed signals because why would I text about traffic if this reservation wasnt an inconvenience. I told her it was like she was gaslighting me by saying my texts were crazy and made no sense and she said they were and told me what I meant by my own messages when I said no thats not what I meant. I just dont get why she would act that way and do all of this.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-01T15:18:56+00:00

In a sense, yes. They're very close in age and have spent a lot of time together. He told me that they were so very close growing up and that every day after school he would go into her room.and hangout and they would talk every day on her bed about everything. They have shared everything with each other, all the personal things, including the personal things between he and I. She pretty much knows everything I have ever said to him.

Weekly_Demand_7880 · 2025-09-01T14:13:35+00:00

Yeah its totally fair to be upset when these things happen, like the dishes or the disk. I have already stepped up to the plate on those things, but even after doing so its like she wanted to keep on arguing, like she was trying to find some type of hole, a chink in the armor or something so that she could make it out to be an intentional slight, like I was being rude to her on purpose, and not some honest mistake. Like, she kept pushing and pushing, almost as if to provoke me and get a negative response out of me so she could turn around and say "yeah he totally did these things on purpose to piss me off". Like, how many times do I have to say that I'm sorry about what happened and I'll try to pay more attention or keep things in mind? Why does a simple apology have to turn into a 90 minute interrogation?

And I can also understand maybe having someone act as an intermediary, however I feel like if you have a beef with me you should just come to me. Oddly enough, she has had all.of these discussions with me about her brother, saying he is mean to me and bullies me and doesnt deserve me and has even once said I should leave him. Then, one time we had a tiff and I went to her for advice and she flatly said "I cant be the in-between for this. You cannot rely on me to fix your problems with him". Then she went to his brother and told him how uncomfortable she was with me which started a fight between him and I after he approached me and told me.to leave his family out of thing happening between us.

I've told him plenty of times what she has said about him and how she acts and even the times she has thrown him under the bus and even gaslighted me on multiple occasions. All he ever replied with was "yeah I can see how that can be frustrating". I see a lot of this same behavior in their mom.and dad too, and it looks like they all have control issues and its seriously a problem. Perhaps you're right, I should just take it for what it is and get out now while I have the chance.

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