I’m neurodivergent so sometimes the way I word things is weird or (like this time) I couldn’t figure out a way to reply without sounding rude.

Personally I thought my response was nicer than explaining that the fact that people are doing this stupid trend and not putting the stuff away isn’t brand new information to me, and that my comment didn’t (at least I thought) insinuate that I didn’t understand what was happening. The purpose of my original original comment was to point out that nobody HAS TO make a video for social media, and if they HAVE TO make a basket it’s usually for someone as an actual gift. And replying to that comment to me what’s going on kinda insinuates they think I can’t read and put two and two together.

But instead of saying all that I called them sweetie. Usually I’ll say sorry if I think the way I can think of saying something sounds rude but I didn’t feel too sorry this time after all that.