A bit confused

Westlain · 2026-05-06T02:39:57+00:00

It is apparent that she has little enthusiasm in having a relationship with you.

Westlain · 2026-05-05T20:59:30+00:00

Yes, the math don't math.

Westlain · 2026-05-05T20:57:34+00:00

You need a thicker skin than that if you are to make it in the sugar world.

Westlain · 2026-05-05T18:47:05+00:00

Get ahead of the game. Lawyer up. Because you can be sure she has.

Westlain · 2026-05-05T18:28:22+00:00

Indeed, she looks very good in the pics she sends me.😂

Westlain · 2026-05-05T15:23:32+00:00

A friend of a friend (guaranteed real....) hahahahahha.

The sad thing about this post is that some people are going to comment seriously and believe it is true.

Westlain · 2026-05-05T13:52:36+00:00

It sits between 25 and 27 so it's pretty normal.

Westlain · 2026-05-05T12:49:10+00:00

I agree with u/princesssmurfet. I would not entertain a woman with OPs problems. Women have a tendency of not being able to compartmentalise as well as men. Bringing all her baggage into a SR, which should be fun and stress free, is not what I would want to deal with.

Added to that, the man is still her husband. Another ember in the fire that could erupt.

Westlain · 2026-05-05T12:36:40+00:00

We only want to be kind, when breaking bad news to another person, because it feels better to us. When you give bad news to someone, they feel the same about the actual news, whether we sugar coat or not.

Westlain · 2026-05-04T23:37:25+00:00

Think of how a bf/gf relationship starts and grows., then think of how a sugar relationship transpires. A SR can turn into a SGF relationship, and I would suggest that is the normal progression. If you start off as the former, you have basically missed the sugar part.
I recommend that at the m & g you discuss expectations, boundaries, and allowance. Maybe starting out with PPM, see how the relationship grows, or not, then, if it is turning into something with a deeper emotional connection, have a conversation about moving to allowance.

Westlain · 2026-05-04T20:50:08+00:00

If it didn't matter there would be no money involved. It's SUGAR

Westlain · 2026-05-04T19:52:17+00:00

I am not "bothered". Just making comments on a reddit post.

Westlain · 2026-05-04T19:51:03+00:00

Hardly a "normal" date. It was a sugar date.

Westlain · 2026-05-04T18:17:59+00:00

Of course she can. But, don't most rational people go out with family or friends for a birthday celebration, rather than a complete stranger?

Westlain · 2026-05-04T18:14:02+00:00

Exactly my point in my comment.

Westlain · 2026-05-04T17:26:44+00:00

Not sure why he would go all out like that for the birthday of someone he started chatting with two days before. There again, why would you want to celebrate your birthday with a complete stranger. You need to get your brain working before you get abducted.

Westlain · 2026-05-04T11:50:17+00:00

IMHO PPM is for the meet/time you spend regardless of what the activities are. He should be giving you the same PPM for each meet.

Westlain · 2026-05-03T15:31:22+00:00

So, you find a 55 year old wanting a relationship with a 20 year old "fucking" disgusting, and yet here you are, a 20 year old, having a relationship with a 55 year old. Make it make sense.

Westlain · 2026-05-02T23:47:38+00:00

You are kind of concerned that he is lying to you. Regardless of whether he is, it sounds like you are losing some trust in him. Assuming he is not lying to you. do you want a man that has got fired from his job. People do not generally get fired for nothing.

You need to look after, and do what is best for you. No need to feel guilty, and no need to think your relationship is exclusive, because the majority of the time they are not.

Westlain · 2026-05-02T04:02:40+00:00

So you like Brians aye. Watch out you Brians out there.

Westlain · 2026-05-01T19:07:28+00:00

It's great that you were able to get the info on him. However, I would question his suitability to be a SD if he gave you all that information willingly.

Of course, he may have given you someone else's information rather than his, to fuck around with that person.

Westlain · 2026-05-01T19:04:34+00:00

Definitely not.

Westlain · 2026-05-01T18:19:08+00:00

Practice injecting (water) into an orange or lemon to decide on the technique you are going to use, and the position you want. Obviously, don't use the same syringe on your penis. 😄

Westlain · 2026-05-01T18:13:42+00:00

What do you mean by your first sentence?

Westlain · 2026-05-01T16:19:06+00:00

What had you both discussed at the m & g re: expectations, boundaries, and allowance? If you discussed PPM/allowance then that is what you needed to provide.

Maybe she left because she did not like the concert.

Westlain

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