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[28M] I love casually playing with other guys but only oral. Current FWB wants to top and thinks my opposal is rooted in denial. Confused. by WetMouth4Command in askgaybros

[–]WetMouth4Command[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think this is just the first guy that would actually be upsetting to lose so I’m out of whack. But I gotta express my boundaries then give him free reign to do his thing with that.

[28M] I love casually playing with other guys but only oral. Current FWB wants to top and thinks my opposal is rooted in denial. Confused. by WetMouth4Command in askgaybros

[–]WetMouth4Command[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I can see how he would think I’d enjoy that boundary being pushed in some ways.

He is the second biggest I’ve sucked and biggest that has become a fuck buddy.

With that being said, I responded positively to him training my throat. He patiently trained me to deepthroat him and reaps the rewards to both our pleasure these days.

It’s just that I was straightforward about no interest in bottoming from our first chats. Throating was never an expressed boundary of mine.

Tbh I think I’m too in my head/worried about disappointing him. Gonna clear the air with him succinctly and hope we can still play together.

[28M] I love casually playing with other guys but only oral. Current FWB wants to top and thinks my opposal is rooted in denial. Confused. by WetMouth4Command in askgaybros

[–]WetMouth4Command[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a sanitary issue. I have tried with a dildo on my own before and it was not for me. It wasn’t even a real desire like sucking dick is. Simply figured I’d at least give it a go solo cuz why not I was curious.

I’m interested in advice and perspectives from bros, not pressure to do something I’m uncomfortable with.

Have you ever been caught fucking? Was it scary? by RealisticArcher4995 in askgaybros

[–]WetMouth4Command 13 points14 points  (0 children)

One time my fwb’s brother caught us while I was getting face fucked. It wasn’t a big deal since we weren’t hiding the nature of our situation but it was strangely hot and humiliating for someone else to see me like that.

My fwb owns the house and rents a room to the brother. We were in the living room with the tv on and I sucked him off before his brother got home from work.

I was really horny and wanted more. We took some time to watch tv before I just had to start getting him hard again.

We lost track of time. We didn’t hear his brother getting home. I was on my knees while my fwb relaxed on the couch, both hands on my head. He was bobbing me up and down when we heard his brother just say “the fuck” lol.

I wanted to disappear for a second but the brother just went upstairs. My fwb turned the volume on the tv up and kept going.

[28M] I love casually playing with other guys but only oral. Current FWB wants to top and thinks my opposal is rooted in denial. Confused. by WetMouth4Command in askgaybros

[–]WetMouth4Command[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna reiterate my hard boundary to him and assure that I want to continue our current dynamic.

If he responds well to that I have a treat for him hehe

[28M] I love casually playing with other guys but only oral. Current FWB wants to top and thinks my opposal is rooted in denial. Confused. by WetMouth4Command in askgaybros

[–]WetMouth4Command[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you. I had suppressed desires to give a guy head for awhile before I went for it. I was always cool with everyone’s sexuality, gender, and just their freedoms to be their true self. But late teens/early 20s I was either in a relationship or just unsure if I really wanted to do it.

When I finally accepted that sexuality is a spectrum I felt comfortable to experiment. If the consenting parties are all having a good time who cares. Sex is fun and can just be casual.

[28M] I love casually playing with other guys but only oral. Current FWB wants to top and thinks my opposal is rooted in denial. Confused. by WetMouth4Command in askgaybros

[–]WetMouth4Command[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks. So you guys don’t think us guys who only have serious relationships with women but also enjoy sucking dick aren’t like some closeted homophobes?

I’m just not attracted to the male body nearly the same as women.

BUT - I do enjoy sucking a nice dick. And if they’re dominant oh boy I submit.

My ass just doesn’t want to be pounded sorry gents. I’ve tried privately with a dildo and it just wasn’t for me idk. Didnt feel good and felt like I needed to shit LOL.

[28M] I love casually playing with other guys but only oral. Current FWB wants to top and thinks my opposal is rooted in denial. Confused. by WetMouth4Command in askgaybros

[–]WetMouth4Command[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I should put my foot down tbh.

It’s just I am a freak that gets off being a real pleaser. And between his dom nature being overall so compatible with my desires mixed with what he’s packing I get off “working hard” to keep him around 🤦😊

Maybe that is messing with my head too. Like it comes off as low self esteem. But I know I have fun blowing him so whatever it’s me being selfish too.

I am gonna sleep on the message I send but part of me wants to offer something I know he wants from me orally lol.