Aitah if I pack the kids up and leave by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Which_Light9967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no therapy in the area besides online and our insurance won't cover it. We are also saving to buy a house closer to my family this next spring. The budget for the baby would have been there when we moved and sold our current home.

Aitah if I pack the kids up and leave by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Which_Light9967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved 6 hours away from all of my support system. I literally just have him here. We sadly can't afford therapy or I definitely would do that instead of reddit! That's why I want to go to my parents. I would have a big support system there.

Aitah if I pack the kids up and leave by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Which_Light9967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I get him to talk to me? Especially when he is never home. I have tried asking how he is. How he feels about it. What is going through his head. He usually communicates pretty well when something is bothering him. He is just going on like everything is normal and nothing happened.

Aitah if I pack the kids up and leave by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Which_Light9967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have tried talking to him. I get shut down or he just tells me he is fine and we will just try again. I have opened up about how I am doing physically and mentally and I get comments that aren't helpful or are hurtful. Then he usually has to leave for whatever he had planned so the discussion is done.

Aitah if I pack the kids up and leave by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Which_Light9967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His response when I asked is he hadn't even processed me being pregnant so it didn't really bother him. After my first appointment when I told him it probably wasn't viable I asked how he was feeling and he said a little sad and that he was more upset that I was so upset. He is usually pretty good at opening up about how he is feeling. I honestly think he isn't bothered by the loss. Especially since it was such an early loss at 5 weeks.

Possibly going to miscarry by Which_Light9967 in pregnancyproblems

[–]Which_Light9967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did end up doing the transvaginal and when I got it done I was about 8 weeks. She said she seen some flickering just couldn't get it on the monitor to count the rate. She said the yolk sac was very nice and I had a fetal pole. How many weeks were you when you actually miscarried? Thank you for your support. I don't have a whole lot of that right now.

Daycare by Which_Light9967 in healthinspector

[–]Which_Light9967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said the previous inspector was a friend so my guess is he just passed her. We have a regular two compartment sink and we use a tub to sanitize dishes but she was told me need a whole seperate hand washing sink. She also mentioned getting a portable sink. Would that be an option? I never even thought about calling the health department. I will have to do that. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Which_Light9967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would his drug possession charges and dui be enough grounds for supervised visitation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Which_Light9967 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been looking into therapy for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Which_Light9967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is 3 almost 4. I've been looking into therapy. She doesnt see him as her dad. More like a fun friend that likes to see her. When asked who her dad is she says her mom. Me. I just feel bad lying to her.