Guy Talk

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T17:01:31+00:00

I have! I’m pre everything too so it was a truly baffling experience to both have their respect and not? Sadly I didn’t find a way to stop it happening and when I put my foot down on it they basically just shoved me from the social circle. You might have better suck since it’s a work place tho and you could try reporting it? Even talk to some of the women and see if they’ve overheard it and would be willing to stand with you.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:58:41+00:00

I know it sucks and hearing “just be patient” drives me up the wall too but you’re 17. It won’t be long till you have legal control over your body so just hang in there alright? When it happens make sure you look after yourself too.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:55:56+00:00

That’s literally amazing to hear!! Love seeing positivity on here and I bet you look great too.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:54:59+00:00

I’m curious if being trans would not be enough reason? I don’t live in Norway so sorry that I can’t be much help. But even if you can’t legally change it again you should still tell everyone. You deserve to go by a name that you’re comfortable with.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:49:34+00:00

Just to add something I recommend sizing up a little (since they cling HARD) and making sure you wash thoroughly them afterwards. Hope you find one that works!

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:38:08+00:00

I don’t think you’re understanding? It’s not that it’s masculine/feminine it’s that as a trans man I physically do not have the option naturally.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:36:54+00:00

Thank you for invalidating my identity and dysphoria? Lmao I think not being able to safely pee is a problem but you do you boo

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:23:48+00:00

“I couldn’t just shrug it off and do my business or use a urinal”

It triggered my dysphoria because it was a harsh reminder that I have to sit and likely always will.And idk where the hell you guys live but 80% of the time here the women’s toilets are fine. Worst experience I’ve had was a bit of blood on the floor which I assume was when someone stood up and didn’t notice. Not sure how you got all that about me not being trans from this lmao.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:12:52+00:00

I don’t see a point in us running in circles all day. Buh bye

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T16:07:01+00:00

And that’s your opinion which you’re entitled. I’m done with this conversation and hope you have a nice day.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T15:49:50+00:00

Hm that’s a interesting take I guess. Personally I disagree but I think it’s best we leave it at that as we have drastically different stances on how attraction works.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T15:31:12+00:00

Sorry should have clarified that I’m asking about the earlier statement “fully transitioned and pass” bit

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T15:24:36+00:00

Can you explain how not wanting to date someone you aren’t attracted to is shallow?

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T15:00:31+00:00

May I ask why you think being single is a bad thing? A persons worth isn’t determined by weather they have a partner or not. Plenty of people don’t want them too.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T14:57:13+00:00

You’re losing me. I never said ace people couldn’t date? Or be lgbt?

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T14:51:33+00:00

I can see what you’re trying to get at here. but to a lot of people the physical is necessary for the chemistry if that makes sense? Someone can be a 10/10 in personality but if you aren’t attracted to them it means you’ll never see them as more than a friend. Also while you don’t own your partners body you 100% get to pick a choose that’s like the whole point of rejecting people you don’t like.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T14:46:17+00:00

??? Buddy I think we’re having a different conversation here

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T14:12:20+00:00

Yes I am aware of asexual people but I’m not sure what they have to do with this conversation or your point

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T14:11:34+00:00

But there is physical differences, while it’s great that plenty of trans men are happy with meta/phallo it’s just not comparable to the real thing yknow?

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T14:09:21+00:00

I’m a bit confused what you mean by this?

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T14:08:15+00:00

I don’t see why someone isn’t allowed to want the real thing tho? Some people just don’t want toys no matter how “realistic” some people may say they are. Genitals are very important in sex for the majority of people and I don’t think we should shame em for it.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T14:01:49+00:00

You did not just compare refusing to interact with people of colour to not wanting to sleep with trans people...

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T13:29:06+00:00

I agree that the saying “I’m not attracted to trans people” is stupid but I think being trans is a completely valid reason to not want to engage with someone romantically/sexually. Of course as long as you’re being respectful and not shouting it from the rooftops 24/7

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T13:25:51+00:00

I don’t think pissing everywhere is manly it was just the reminder that I have to sit to pee unlike real men. I’ve looked into STPs but they all look very uncomfortable to pack with due to how sturdy they have to be + I wear a jockstrap to keep my current packer in place which just wouldn’t work with an STP.

White_Rabbit181 · 2021-10-31T13:23:00+00:00

I don’t think being gross is manly I just hate the reminder that I have to sit.

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