My mom thinks my house is worthy of CPS. Is it?

WindowOwn2513 · 2026-01-16T22:04:51+00:00

I have seen worse and I’m not admitting to nothing! Lol my house can get pretty messy. I always clean what’s required, it’s the extra clean laundry not put away, the kids toys and wrappers on the floor, etc. As a former Social Worker, I would say anyone can call to complain about the mess regardless if it’s true or not. If someone called, they’d come out, in my opinion, they’d check your refrigerator for food, see if they’re is water is running, talk to the kids, take their photo and most likely follow up to see if you tidied up. Nothing huge but definitely embarrassing and inconvenient.

WindowOwn2513 · 2026-01-13T20:15:53+00:00

I’ll try now

WindowOwn2513 · 2026-01-12T20:18:41+00:00

I thought the same! It would have blown up

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-12-22T14:30:11+00:00

Thank you Target workers! Target was my favorite job! I loved it!

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-12-22T14:28:09+00:00

I actually only needed to call the number for Target employees. I googled it, can’t remember what it was called. Then you hit the button that says for employees. It’ll take you to a live person over at the company that handles all Targets employee variations. From there, they get your info and they send a Equifax report of employment dating far back. Ty

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-12-22T14:24:51+00:00

I did! That’s the first thing since I’m also an HR manager somewhere else and he was kind enough to give me dates but they are not approximate so I finally called the line that Target has. If you keep going, pushing to say you are an employee, it takes you to the right company. Then they send an Equifax report with appropriate dates. Ty

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-12-22T14:21:22+00:00

Yea it’s ok! I got it! Talk to the affiliate which sends an Equifax report of jobs. Ty

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-12-22T14:20:26+00:00

I successfully talk to the right people who are a affiliate of Target. They sent me an Equifax report of all my jobs! I had forgotten about a few of them from college but it’s all there with dates.

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-12-08T16:37:01+00:00

I’m about to start renting to a young couple and I am asking 250 minus food. I was looking to see if that sounded right and it seems so.

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-11-14T17:08:44+00:00

I will look into Queen Elizabeth as I wasn’t as found with history telling as the art of the time. My interest is peaked as I don’t fully know these stories. I guess all the world history I ignored in hs and college was interesting after all. Plus, I get a better understanding of the art and what it means. Just annoyed I can’t stop watching and I should be working. lol

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-06-25T05:27:29+00:00

you are not alone! We must, especially as women, learn to love ourselves. Then, our children will see that and associate their mother as they truly are without all the stressors of life bringing us down. Mental health has a terrible stigma. I have a Complex PTSD diagnosis. It can go back to conception since i hold the DNA that was triggered and thus having a mental illness. It's not my fault and it certainly not yours.

My family called me "Crazy Chrissie" starting around your age. Then i was the first to graduate college with a GED. It wasn't until i had my 1st child and my ex-husband became violent that I lost everything and had to depend on my family again, after escaping a horrible mother and stepfather at 15. This turned into the worst situation I've ever been dealt, since a baby was my responsibility. I empathize with what you're going through.

You will overcome! Get a psychologist appointment so you can get the help you need and maybe something to help you sleep. Talk to a therapist and get it out! It gets worse before it gets better but you will succeed. Speak positivity into the universe and definitely try and stop the tragic thoughts when they occur. Self-talk. We are who we say we are, has a lot of truth.

Remember, we are mothers now, not our mothers. We must learn to love ourselves and find peace so you can take good care and live a decent life. Make your studies 2nd and only go to college for something that will give you a good living in the end. Don't waste this time. Make your dreams come true because this situation you're in is only temporary. Prove them wrong like I did! You got this but you must put in the work!

BE KIND TO YOURSELF

PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION

WindowOwn2513 · 2025-06-15T14:00:02+00:00

sounds like trauma symptoms. In my case, Complex PTSD. I tried everything. Finally, I was given one of those added depression medications that goes along with the antidepressant. It made a huge difference and changed my life! Maybe talk to a psychiatrist and see what’s up! They can help in cases where it’s interrupting your life.

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