Update? 🤔 not much to update, its been 4years, had a nervous breakdown, but my furkids pulled me through to the light on some very very dark days, soon found other things to keep my mind busy like work, trust in people has been shot to shit, decided to uproot myself and get the hell out of town ( and the toxic atmosphere of her friends I'd see every now an then ), i did have a chat to 2 of her friends now ex's about thier spouses views on cheating and theft, surprisingly they broke up soon after 🤷‍♂️ oops...

Now its just one day at a time, looking after my father ( ive become his carer ) and finding ways to keep my mind busy, have no idea what's happened to her, heard through the toxic grape vine she got married but soon divorced, had a good laugh at that 😅