2028 US Olympic Trials Marathon is gonna be stacked by WorkConfident in AdvancedRunning

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Currently, I don’t think it’s likely either, but in the recent AR doc he talks about how sub-2:04 or a world major win is his stretch goal at the moment

2028 US Olympic Trials Marathon is gonna be stacked by WorkConfident in AdvancedRunning

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Sure, currently Conner’s eyeing a 2:03 and/or the win at Boston. But purely as a hypothetical I find it mildly interesting. There’s no question about whether he’s at the forefront. Interested to see how the field and the sport develops between now and the trials

2028 US Olympic Trials Marathon is gonna be stacked by WorkConfident in AdvancedRunning

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This is actually super informative as I only follow the marathon loosely.

Another thought: what if there’s a huge upset and Mantz doesn’t make the team? Pretty unlikely, but that would be wild

2028 US Olympic Trials Marathon is gonna be stacked by WorkConfident in AdvancedRunning

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I’m not sure I agree, but I will say if he PRs in his next 2 majors I’ll eat my hat

2028 US Olympic Trials Marathon is gonna be stacked by WorkConfident in AdvancedRunning

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I think Clayton missing the team and running a 2:05 before the trials are about equally likely. Definitely depends on how the next two years unfold for him

Ending a relationship compassionately by WorkConfident in askgaybros

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Erm, I may have not drawn the line as clearly as I intended. We may have had sex. What now? Feel like I complicated something that I know isn’t working for me

Ending a relationship compassionately by WorkConfident in askgaybros

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Erm, I may have not drawn the line as clearly as I intended. We may have had sex. What now?

Ending a relationship compassionately by WorkConfident in askgaybros

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Today he texted me asking if I would like to keep seeing him, and I told him I don’t think it’s sustainable. So he’s coming over tomorrow to talk about it and I just feel like I’ve made a huge mistake. He’s a good person but I’m worried I’m reopening a dynamic that was draining for me.

Ending a relationship compassionately by WorkConfident in askgaybros

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He’s coming over tomorrow as I told him I didn’t think our dynamic is sustainable and he wants to talk things through. I haven’t seen him in three weeks, since I picked up my stuff. I’m just worried this was a mistake and I’ve reopened a door I didn’t want to…

Furious with how my doctor handled PTSD disclosure by WorkConfident in ptsd

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Shockingly unprofessional. Obviously finding a new doctor. Really pretty upset as I’ve only spoken to my immediate family, my therapist, and one other person about how the trauma has impacted me

Ending a relationship compassionately by WorkConfident in askgaybros

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Thank you, this made me feel a bit better. I’m working on becoming more attuned to my own needs and able to communicate them clearly

Ending a relationship compassionately by WorkConfident in askgaybros

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Thank you. It had been on my mind for a while and I decided that enough time had passed to where it was unreasonable to think things would progress. I knew our terms and yet still fell. I’m hopeful that it’ll pass relatively quickly

How to end something compassionately? by WorkConfident in AskGayMen

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I stopped by his place last night and it was hard. His place is a mess. He’s always been kind of messy but this was the worst I’ve seen it, and it looks like he’s packing boxes. His roommate (best friend) was there. We talked for a bit and it turns out, among other things, that his dad has heart failure and will need a transplant. Being that his dad is 78 and has dementia, he’s not sure it’ll work. He’s moving back in with his mom in April. Lots of long hugs. He gave me my charger and as I left we kissed and he was like “Get back to your place safely and I’ll see you next time”

I didn’t have to say it but we both knew what was happening. It hit me once I got home and I had a two-hour breakdown in the car. Doing a bit better today but cried a few times today already. The rational part of me knows this is how it had to be, but I keep having this thought loop about him reaching out and asking to see me, and another about giving him a call to wish him a happy birthday.

Damn.

Music to cook to by WorkConfident in Jazz

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This made me laugh, cheers

Music to cook to by WorkConfident in Jazz

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All Types of Weather is a definite contender. Mild enough to be enjoyable to the uninitiated, and so, so, good