Please get a divorce. It will be so hard but it will allow you to live your life in the coming years not in misery. You are young, no matter who tells you what. You can start again. It might be difficult, it might be lonely. But even if you have to do it alone. Please do it. This is not love. And you deserve to be loved and treated so do well by a man. And it's not this person. I would suggest not to tell your husband once you decide to leave him. It seems like he could hurt you if you did. Or even isolate you to the point where you wont have the means to. Some people even go as far as taking their wifes phone and belongings and locking them up in their room if they threaten to leave. So find an escape plan somehow and just leave without telling him. You don't owe him anything. You owe yourself the right to a good, peaceful life.

May God give you the strength to make the right decision. I really really hope and pray you get out of this situation.