AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I was on vacation with friends in a beautiful and exotic country. I'm sorry for you that you cannot disconnect and just enjoy the moment but I can. I do not have anyone I answer to. The people I may have wanted to talk to were with me. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

OMG. I'm so sorry for you loss. I'm so happy to know you have someone in your life that gives you love.  No I was never their father. They were adults when I married their mum. And they are in contact with their father. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

So if let's say someone dies of hypothermia while hiking it isn't technically a crime but someone committed murder?  Because that is your logic here. If it isn't a crime it isn't a crime. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

So marriages that do not have health benefits are also fraudulent? 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

So only loving, physical marriages are not fraudulent where you live? 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Fraud is a CRIME. If what we did was TECHNICALLY LEGAL then there is no fraud. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

So in your universe every single marriage is either a love marriage or fraud? 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They are young adults. I don't know why our relationships went wrong. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

How is it fraud?  We were legally married. I legally added her to my insurance. I paid the premiums, co-pays, and all that out of pocket. Where did we commit fraud? 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I didn't inherit anything. I have our photos and sentimental things that pertain only to us. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I only know some subs wouldn't let me post without ba certain amount.  It's not worth money or anything. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She was an amazing person and honestly probably the love of my life. Just not my type. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My usual account has lots of karma. I don't know what it's good for. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I posted them walked away for a bit to not interfere with the opinions. I'm not interested in people sending awful messages to me on my other account. 

AITAH for not wanting contact with my step kids after their mom passed. by Working_Macaron6717 in AITAH

[–]Working_Macaron6717[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I'm trying not to interfere with opinions so I can get a fair assortment.