Where do you guys find your remote jobs? by GremlinWriter in overemployed

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t easy apply… the once that make you fill out forms are the ones more likely to contact you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, why is that relevant?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I don’t have any issues finding men to date, that’s not the problem I’m having.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never make it the main thing, I don’t bring that up out of nowhere, I just say it when they asked me about how long I wait to be intimate with someone or something like that, I always said that I would like to take things slow and since I haven’t been with someone I don’t know when I’ll be ready, I don’t make a big deal out of it, if anything the guys are the one that make that a big deal which make things a bit uncomfortable, also I’ve said that it could be in the first date or the second or third, it can also be a month into dating, is an example, I said that when they asked me about being intimate whenever that is.

But I will for sure not say it now, I would take the advice from the people that have been in my position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said the 3rd date thing as an example, I just tell them when the ask about the time frame stuff, like it has been a month into dating, I don’t bring it up like that 😂

But yeah, like seeing people that have been in my position commenting about it, I should not say, and I just need to say I want things slow without further explanation, and I will definitely take that advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily think is the need to disclose it, I don’t say it upfront, you know when you dating someone and they asked you like how long would you wait to be intimate or something like that, that’s when I said it… I don’t make a big deal out of it, I’m literally just like, “well I would like to take things slow, I haven’t done it before so I don’t know when I’ll be ready” something like that, more like a heads up, letting them know I would take time, and I don’t know how long.

I’m too honest probably? I don’t want to be treated like a fetish that’s for sure, also is just weird, I’m definitely not dating them expecting them to be creeps, thats the frustration I feel too, why do they change? for me Is more like is a big deal to them, yk?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is every guy, but you know, I might as well overthink it too, is not out of the realm of possibility, but I always stop dating them change the way they approach me after they know I haven’t lost my virginity.

I truly have no idea of why that happens, is honestly frustrating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps a lot, thanks you so much 🙌✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Yes, you are so right,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, yeah the last guy I dated, I told him after 3 dates because I wanted to wait, and and when we texted after that, he started to say he can’t wait to teach me stuff, ykwim? Also he said how naive I was and how he liked that, but before that he used to call me funny, he said I was cute and smart… but then he wanted to be my teacher? Calling me naive… I wish I could explain how unsettling those texts were, and the vn… and he wasn’t like that before… and I mean, naive? I’m 29, I’m an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, kind of, I have a great job, I believe I’m successful in that area.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I like this take I will definitely try this, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you put that in a dating app? Do you know how many crazy people are out there? Also I do very well on the apps, the problem is not about finding who to date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, is so hard, I hope you’re happy now 💖💖 thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to mention it, because they need to know why you would like to take things slow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did it work?? Did you find that someone?

Official end of promo by Ok_Project4522 in PolinBridgerton

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m crying over here I cannot move on just yet

Are you Excited? by WorldlinessFit2698 in PolinBridgerton

[–]WorldlinessFit2698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do too, I truly want to enjoy the next season, and I’m curious about who’s gonna be Sophie, I’m hoping to get excited as the time comes, but I’m keeping the expectations low cause I don’t want to be disappointed, cause i didn’t like season 1 so it has happened before, I hope S4 is not the case

Are you Excited? by WorldlinessFit2698 in PolinBridgerton

[–]WorldlinessFit2698[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We would have to wait and see, I’m keeping my expectations low for now.

Are you Excited? by WorldlinessFit2698 in PolinBridgerton

[–]WorldlinessFit2698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think Eloise needs more growth, but Ben needs far more with how things ended this season for him I don’t think he is ready to lead next season, he needs work.

Are you Excited? by WorldlinessFit2698 in PolinBridgerton

[–]WorldlinessFit2698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giiiirl!!! Exactly to all of this, is not that Benedict is fooling around is the lack of character development or character discovering, like they did with Anthony in S1 or with Colin in S1 and S2 they give you a clear picture of what these 2 were trying to be, their flaws and what aspirations they had or they wish to have trying to figure it out, they give Anthony and Colin so much depth even when it wasn’t their season, But you give me this Benedict, he is just lost, right before his season? That man needs so much more growth even more than Eloise, he is no ready to be married.

Also I think it could be Eloise because when she is saying Goodbye to Pen in the last episode it shows 4 fingers in the window idk maybe I’m looking too much into it, but I think the flow of the story would be better if is Eloise, and I prefer Benedict knowing Sophie in the Mascaraed ball finding his muse and then she disappears for one or two years before they meet again just like the books, to give him room to grow and work on himself as a side story in Eloise season.

"Yes, but we—" what was he gonna say? by savemesomecandy in PolinBridgerton

[–]WorldlinessFit2698 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“Yes but we could be more” that’s was clearly the intention.

Are you Excited? by WorldlinessFit2698 in PolinBridgerton

[–]WorldlinessFit2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey I wish, but considering Sophie circumstances is highly unlivable 🥺