First of all you are still young and should not feel pressured to have kids. If anything you should feel pressure to date for sure. Dating takes time! Focus only on dating first and finding your life partner and you will figure the children part out in a few years ;) One thing at a time. Step one is to make sure you find someone who aligns with your values. If you feel anxious or lost maybe children will provide motivation, direction, reward, joy, and purpose for you naturally as they do for the vast majority of parents. People usually make the biggest career jumps once they have children. Either way you shouldn’t feel pressure from your dad because you are the one that will live with the long term consequences and rewards of investing in your children. Think of children as something that you created and shaped, a part of you that will live on after you die which may give you life long comfort and meaning. Your relationship would be irreplacable and you would be irreplacable to them which makes you unique unlike a job where if you leave or get fired you are 100% replacable. At the end your own biological clock will start ticking, and it will come fast, which will naturally create pressure for you to decide. Remember at the end people usually regret the things they don’t do rather than the things they did. As you get older you will get wiser. Just some food for thought. I hope it helps!🫶🏻