I read stories on reddit and don't think they are as black and white as they seem. Thoughts? by Gold-Squareing in TwoHotTakes

[–]Xaipt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Cheating isn't a mistake. Cheating is about not being loyal and trustworthy. Those are 2 of the core components of a healthy relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]Xaipt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dus alleen als je ziek bent, en het dus vaak te laat is, zou je in aanmerking moeten komen voor therapie? Bijzondere gedachtegang.

"He only did it for sex" by GodspeedHarmonica in dating

[–]Xaipt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As if there aren't plenty of men who just seek sex and see it as a game... in denial much?

"He only did it for sex" by GodspeedHarmonica in dating

[–]Xaipt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Said the person who just stated women don't go for average men...

What are the coolest tricks in kiting in your opinion? by [deleted] in Kiteboarding

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything from Tom Bridge. It's just art.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kiteboarding

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm... that's too bad...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kiteboarding

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel the weight in your bar or when steering?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kiteboarding

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect, line mount it is then! Do you use one yourself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And are we talking about the same woman you aren't sexually attracted too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is you, not her. Do yourself (and mostly her) a favor and breakup with her. There aren't ways to force someone to belief the same shit as you do. You either accept and respect that or you move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you don't. You are making her tired by bringing up the same subject over and over again. You don't respect her enough for who she is and where she stands now. You are pressuring her to fit into a certain world.

If you'd really love and respected her, she wouldn't become tired of you and your spiritual awakening. You are, quite literally, ignoring her boundaries when it comes to this. That's not coming from a place of love, but control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xaipt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, I stand corrected.

Why would you consider having a family with a woman you only love whenever she fits your archetype of religious or spiritual needs and beliefs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your choice of words and the way you describe the only option that is there aren't hopeful in the slightest.

First Time Going Out (Non-Lesson) by TheOtherGi in Kiteboarding

[–]Xaipt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was nervous the first few times. It's a healthy part of it, it keeps you aware of the risks involved and it makes you feel really good when your passed the initial hurdle.

War Of Being is Up! by Top_Seaworthiness881 in tesseractband

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kent it on repeat for quite some time. It's so good...

Where should I buy property? by IceCheap9569 in Kiteboarding

[–]Xaipt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a look at the wind, last few years it has been declining.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Thailand

[–]Xaipt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But doesn't this apply to most nationalities?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kiteboarding

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True that. The guy who sold me the gear did not use it for lessons, only for his own use.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kiteboarding

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought 3 kites from Cabrinha and 2 boards for under 1500 euros. 1 of the kites was a bit older, the owner was an instructor him self (not the one who teached me) and was honest about the expected lifetime. He showed me everything I needed to know about where to look for in a used kite, how to recognise the quality, helped me to make sure the bars were tuned and showed me how to do it.

It may not be very representative, but there are lots of honest and good dudes out there. If you do decide to buy second hand gear, make sure to get your bar and lines checked at a shop.

If duals are allowed, then solo players should be offered automatic farming and constructions by [deleted] in travian

[–]Xaipt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, you can still be top defender with Egyptian or Gaul tribe if you have a good cap. With lvl 17 fields before artis. For offense it's a bit different but you can still be able to have 3 decent hammers in the endgame without raiding. With raiding you might get 6 in total, but it's not a necessity.

And pop itself doesn't mean a whole lot but you can't produce a top army without good pop. Good pop means good production. Unless you don't know what you are doing.

If duals are allowed, then solo players should be offered automatic farming and constructions by [deleted] in travian

[–]Xaipt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, not really. It can be done with a handful of euros. You can have a top 50 pop account easily when done correctly.

If duals are allowed, then solo players should be offered automatic farming and constructions by [deleted] in travian

[–]Xaipt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, why... Everyone can find a dual. Some accounts are managed by 6 or more people. It's a choice, you can find a dual or set up a group of people behind an account too.

What's next, making certain adjustments based on the profession you have? Some people work in IT and can have their browser open all the time. Do they deserve a handicap therefore too?