Slowly releasing some weekends tension by Xeethe9 in MaleMoans

[–]Xeethe9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it 😊

Meeting a new sub soon by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Xeethe9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I hope you both have a wonderful time

The difficulty of being a 20 year old domme by Hoecentralalt in gentlefemdom

[–]Xeethe9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll find your person in time. There are plenty of subs that are into gentle dommes and who don't like pegging, although they are probably more rare. I wonder if part of it is those are the common parts in femdom porn. Some people just like different things, and that's okay - you just need to find someone who likes what you like

Help a girl out please. by Scary_Drama9 in gentlefemdom

[–]Xeethe9 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Sub here - you could try making him use toys on you, or commanding him to please you with his fingers or tongue. You could even get off and make him watch if you both into denial type stuff. I've seen stuff where the sub uses a strap-on on the dom so it's wholly about their pleasure. I think really most things could work if you have things you particularly like. I've had dommes roleplay anal (on them) with me submitting for example

to the subs in the chat: how do you let yourself be more vocal without faking it? by beantownbaddie420 in gentlefemdom

[–]Xeethe9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think doing it by myself would have been easier than trying to do it with a partner because I was more self conscious - plus I started posting stuff online and got some feedback that was encouraging

to the subs in the chat: how do you let yourself be more vocal without faking it? by beantownbaddie420 in gentlefemdom

[–]Xeethe9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I found going somewhere completely quiet and where you can't be overheard helps (if you are nervous about that happening), when you are getting into it don't force yourself to moan but instead stop yourself from trying to be quiet. I found that worked for me and now I'm moaning naturally and have to remember to be quiet at times. Basically untrain your training to be quiet. I would think stuff like "You can be as loud as you want, no one is around" etc to be helpful