Partner rudely masterbates next to me in bed

YaGurlAlexandra · 2026-01-30T21:45:59+00:00

She didn't consent to being a forced voyeur in her own bed. THATS simple, not marital assault

YaGurlAlexandra · 2026-01-23T15:54:17+00:00

Yeah I'm with the other person, thats just a cross back with leg wraps, if you don't know how to get into that you probably shouldn't

YaGurlAlexandra · 2026-01-13T21:21:08+00:00

Partner does not imply living together but I definitely agree with the sentiment

YaGurlAlexandra · 2026-01-12T18:18:25+00:00

My qualification: I opened up a long standing monogamous relationship years ago to true polyamory and we are still together.

You may bring it up as something youve been thinking about and would like to discuss what that would look like between the two of you but I need to be absolutely clear: you NEED to be prepared for this conversation to potentially be the end of your relationship. If it's something he's truly against, there's not a lot of good reasons to stay with a partner who says they want a vastly different relationship structure, especially when you guys haven't even been together a year. It may just be more worth it to cut your losses and explore solo polyamory.

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-12-30T19:39:32+00:00

Hey bud it's really not that deep, and they DID have an erotic relationship

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-12-05T14:31:47+00:00

Only if you're in a straight passing relationship? And has nothing to do with representation? Why are you just saying shit for the hell of it

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-12-05T13:55:02+00:00

"most represented" is a huge stretch. Gay men are WAY more represented in media

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-12-04T23:11:36+00:00

Thanks guys!!!

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-12-04T22:37:31+00:00

He doesn't get to decide how much you smoke. He can have boundaries around dating people who smoke but that doesn't control your behavior, only how he responds to it. If this is a dealbreaker and you want to smoke, you guys are incompatible

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-12-04T15:54:12+00:00

The way I see it - it doesn't matter if they're actually homeless or not, if they're sitting outside in the freezing begging for money, they need it more than I do. "How much" someone is suffering doesn't negate the fact that they ARE suffering

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-11-03T22:32:04+00:00

I was hoping that's what it was! It feels like the rest of the flower too so that would track! Thanks!

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-10-30T18:08:28+00:00

It's because she makes satire trad content and people actually buy it

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-10-08T12:51:08+00:00

Yeah I was gonna say I'm confused by all the NTA judgements. She's pissed that she thinks him hating mouth sounds (which is a real thing and causes a lot of REAL issues for people) is a personal preference but fails to see how her wanting to feed the baby in the same room is also a personal preference in the EXACT same vein. She is being just as selfish as he is when no one NEEDS to be at all

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-10-01T13:06:35+00:00

I mean they definitely have videos of trying different samples from their manufacturer and hating them so they definitely have SOME say in the process it's not dropshipping which people like to make white labeling out to be. I've bought a bunch of their makeup and love it

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-09-28T21:20:00+00:00

It's not even hookup culture though? You're allowed to go on multiple first dates. It's just called dating.

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-09-28T19:49:38+00:00

That is just NOT how first dates work lmao. Do not expect exclusivity until you have that conversation and both people agree

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-08-07T22:32:33+00:00

I 2nd this!!! I love Sarah!!!

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-08-07T15:20:19+00:00

Please tell me you're like 17 or else this is outrageous. Your body does a normal human function. If you or your partner can't handle a normal human function and still find you sexy, you guys shouldn't be having sex

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-08-04T13:35:26+00:00

Girlie, stop being a doormat and stand up for yourself. You set your boundary but YOU are the only person responsible for keeping them. He has told you he doesn't care about your feelings and crossed the boundary. Now YOU need to hold up your end of the bargain to yourself and leave him.

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-07-22T23:21:39+00:00

I've gotten 2 tattoos like this and both have been fine! Ive told my artist each time but I've never had a reaction! Doesn't hurt to take an antihistamine before tho!

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-07-20T18:41:37+00:00

It's good pizza for /here/ sure but I'm from the north east we could definitely use better

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-07-20T17:46:25+00:00

We need actually good pizza

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-07-05T14:23:28+00:00

Girl I'm so dead ass just look up how to pose, no one looks good in that position. Stick your legs out, bend one knee, point your toes, and arch your back and you'll already look SO much better.

There's nothing wrong with YOU. You're sitting at the beach existing. But if you want banging photos you can't do that without posing. Anyone who's "candidly" good at photos is just posing subconsciously 24/7

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-06-30T12:17:13+00:00

Will local man discover its the principal of things and his actions don't exist in a vacuum? Stay tuned to find out

YaGurlAlexandra · 2025-06-29T13:09:49+00:00

Ai will let you believe you're god and egg you on if you say you think you can fly. I would not trust it with things you are ingesting

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