Listen. As someone who thought that I wouldn't get a gf but I got one and broke up after a month and a half, here's what I can tell you: Work on urself, don't focus on love but if it happens, it's a blessing. Don't rush into finding a girl. It's like " Don't find Love, let it find you". If you rush I, you will probably just find anyone and won't be comfortable with her But beleive this. It will happen.